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Feeling friend is ignoring me completely

  • 23-08-2007 5:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Over the past while I have been in the pits over an issue I have had with a friend.

    Since I have known her well over a year, she went awol for a few months when I didnt quite know her aswell as I have now, but she reappeared on the scene.
    Since christmas the two of us would always have a decent talk via txt msn etc.
    I began to fall in love with her for who she was and loved having her around and being in her presence, as she would open up to me and just talk. We would meet up randomly for coffee or lunch which was great. At one stage I bit the bullet and told her how I felt about her, but since I told her this, she put me straight into the friend zone and is now completely ignoring me. I send her usual friendly txts and I never ever get any replies anymore. Friends of mine that know her too always seem to get replies. If I MSN she just idles and I'm getting the feeling she just doesn't want to know me anymore.

    Where as in the past she would contact me for information involving an event involving me, my friends etc, she doesn't bother contacting me anymore. I just now feel left out altogether.
    The trouble is, our paths cross so much with friends etc and online that my only option is to leave the country if I was to get away from her.

    The feeling I'm getting is that she just doesn't want me to be her friend anymore and that I was used to comfort her and now that everything is A-OK with her, I can now go and F-off


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  • #2
    the_syco
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 37,316 ✭✭✭✭the_syco


    lostfriendagain wrote:
    The feeling I'm getting is that she just doesn't want me to be her friend anymore and that I was used to comfort her and now that everything is A-OK with her, I can now go and F-off
    I read it as: you went from someone she could talk to and confide in, to someone who wanted to bone her, and thus she ran a mile.

    Move on dude, and chalk it down as experience.


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