Advertisement
If you have a new account but are having problems posting or verifying your account, please email us on hello@boards.ie for help. Thanks :)
Hello all! Please ensure that you are posting a new thread or question in the appropriate forum. The Feedback forum is overwhelmed with questions that are having to be moved elsewhere. If you need help to verify your account contact hello@boards.ie
Hi there,
There is an issue with role permissions that is being worked on at the moment.
If you are having trouble with access or permissions on regional forums please post here to get access: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058365403/you-do-not-have-permission-for-that#latest

little advice needed

  • 15-08-2007 2:16pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey. im gonna keep this short just looking for some input from anyone with similar experiences,
    met this girl through a friend of a friend, so i took a liking to her and thought the vibes were good, so i tried it on........as you do!
    but no joy as she said her friend likes me and she couldn't do it to her, now i'm far from adept at understanding the fairer sex but was wondering is this a classic blow off method, or what?
    don;t think it is to be honest cos she was trying to ontro me to this friend thats supposed to like me, (feeling isn't mutual by the way).
    any thoughts would be appreciated, should i keep trying or leave it lie?


Comments

  • #2
    Foxykitty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11 ✭Foxykitty


    leave it be what will happen will happen, i have to say tho i have never used that one must give it a go lol


  • #3
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    I would think she is telling the truth. Her friends likes you and she wont step on her toes. Move on and try again in a few months time when her friend knows nothing is going to happen between you and her.


  • #4
    Requiem4adream
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,538 ✭✭✭Requiem4adream


    In my experience, girls (or boys) very rarely respond with the blunt, basic truth in situations like this, I dont think ive ever been rejected with the line "just dont like you!!".

    Having said that, if you have no reason to assume she is trying to let you down gently then she's simply giving you the heads-up on the situation. The "situation" is a classic no-win scenario too, you dont like the friend and that's going nowhere, and any potential involvement with her friend will end up causing friction between the 2 of them. Rough one. Generally though if it's clear to Friend A that you dont like her and Friend B does like you, Friend A isnt much of a friend at all if she prevents it from happening.


Advertisement