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Frustration

  • 07-08-2007 3:16pm
    #1
    barbeck23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36 ✭


    Okay here's the story:-

    I recently met a wonderful person who I have fallen madly in love with. Only thing is, they are moving in a few wk's to England for good and now the person is backing off and trying to keep distance between us so that the move isn't too painful. Therefore basically what we have is confined to the bedroom and I feel a bit frustrated that they won't spend time with me outside of that...

    What to do without losing the person altogther?


Comments

  • #2
    Sleepy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    Nothing, accept their decision. Unless you're so madly in love with them that you're prepared to move to England for them (and they're okay with that which frankly would surprise me if you've only met recently), you can't do anything else.


  • #3
    Petey2006
    Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭Petey2006


    It sucks that the person is going away for good. Believe me, I've been there and I know how much it can hurt. But you're getting a bit of sex and no strings. There's nothing you can do, so have a bit of fun now and let it slide. You're not going to be able to change the other person's mind. I've tried before. You'll just end up hurt.


  • #4
    barbeck23
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36 ✭barbeck23


    Thanks everyone,

    Yeh it's **** situation. I think all I can do is be nice and enjoy the time we have and then keep in contact. Thats all I can do and no one ever knows what the future holds...

    God damn falling in love at the wrong time... :(


  • #5
    EdChigliak
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6 ✭EdChigliak


    This probably isnt helpful but its a nice story anyway.
    my mum and dad were only together a few months when she emigrated to the states. He followed her over and she got freaked out by his seriousness and ended it. ten years later they bumped into each other randomely and were married within the year. Awwww! true love conquers all :)


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