Is she pregnant?

LegacyUser

SO here it goes, being seeing this girl on and off over a period of time.
she was on the pill for 2 years. She came off it and had a period twoards the end of june.
She never got one the whole of july and still not now on the 7th of August, to put it blunt we slept with each other while quite drunk on the last weekend in july ( so over 28 days since last period, and i belive a very unfertiel period of time). I thought i pulled out in time but something have may have got inside her..
She was having terrible period pains for the last 10 days but no period.
I suppose my question is this, if being on the pill for 2 years can mess up her whole cycle? could she have a phontom period where its just pain and nothing visible?
thanks for your help anyone who replies as you can imagine im sweatin here....... ;(

Marksie

Go down to the chemists and buy a pregnancy testing kit.

Then you will know

K-9

Marksie wrote:

Go down to the chemists and buy a pregnancy testing kit.

Then you will know

Agreed, but bear in mind did happen to my g/f once, missed hers one month and back regular the following one.

Also if your not sure the following morning, try and get the morning after pill.

sillymoo2007

From a girls point of view if she's freaking out about this as much as you are the stress of waiting for periods to arrive does delay the process. At this stage she should have a fair idea herself boobs would be sore etc best thing to do is just go to the chemist and find out for definate by getting a test.

Miss Fluff

Coming off the pill can interfere with a woman's entire cycle. When I say entire cycle I don't just mean expected period date but if she begins to ovulate straight away it might not be within the usual 12-15 days and could be earlier or later. The problem is that worrying could delay her period too. I guess the most proactive thing you can do at this stage is buy a pregnancy test. Hope it goes well for you.

G&T

When you stop taking the pill you can ovulate more than once a month for the first month or two.

I came off the pill had a bleed and then nothing
again until after my son was born....

My due date had to be confirmed by scan because the doctor's said I could have ovulated any time that month.

I hope it is not the case for you,but you should be prepared.
When your gf came off the pill she was no longer protected.

batman2000

As in other replies, a trip to the chemist and pregnancy test. Now I'm a bloke and don't have a full grasp on the whole menstrual cycle but by god it can have a mind of it's own. Also the withdrawal method is not a means of contraception.....sorry to say it, you do the deed face the consequences

Oryx

No one here can tell you for sure. People here can give you hope or make you worry more, but its all just guessing. I know its nerve wracking, but the not knowing is worse. Go out and get her a test and youll at least know either way.



Oh, and good luck with it. *fingers crossed for ya*

sillymoo2007

So What happened did she take the test?

cherubaul

are you trying to tell me that you thought withdrawl was a valid contraceptive ?holy crap mate what were you thinking. Yes your worried and all that jazz but sorry to tell you its your own self made problem if the lady comes off the pill then you shrink wrap yer dong that simple. TBH theres a fair chance you got lucky and if so fair dues but for the love of God if you did, learn from it respect yourself and respect your partner use a form of contraceptrive.