I like her...but wont go anywhere :(

LegacyUser

Hey guys,

A new girls started in my job about a month ago, when i saw her for the first time i thought she was beautiful, Loving amazing blue eyes, lovely cute smile (with dimples) your laugh is amazing...so infectious....basically theres so much about this girl that i like...Dresses really well...Her personality is amazing and the best part is that we get on really well and on top of it all, im normally a very funny guy but with her, i always have her in stitches, but wait for it...yes...she's taken!

God..doesn't this type of situation just suck? if she wasnt i would ask her out in a split second! now i know what everyone is going to say...leave her alone etc, but i dont have any motive to do anything about it. More to the point of if anyone else has been in the situation..what they did?

Thanks in advance guys...

Victor

why-me.. wrote:

A new girls started in my job about a month ago, when i saw her for the first time i thought she was beautiful, Loving amazing blue eyes, lovely cute smile (with dimples) your laugh is amazing...so infectious....basically theres so much about this girl that i like...Dresses really well...Her personality is amazing and the best part is that we get on really well and on top of it all, im normally a very funny guy but with her, i always have her in stitches, but wait for it...yes...she's taken!

Don't take this too harshly, but can you refamiliarise yourself with your friends 'full stop' and 'space'?

G&T

May the best man win.......

Seriously,if she cheat's on him with you,how will you ever be sure she wont do the same to you.
If she like's you and is interested in taking thing's further give her the time and space to finish with the other guy first.
Has she given any indication she fancies you?
My guess is she is just flattered by the attention.

King of Kings

if you work with her eventually you will grow familiar with her and she won't be so hot anymore. been in my job 6 years and this has happened to me countless times.

but she is taken - to pursue her would be the actions of a selfish prick as in intentionally causing unhappiness to somebody for your own gain.
leave alone.

IANAL (hullaballoo's test a/c)

why-me.. wrote:

Hey guys,

A new girls started in my job about a month ago, when i saw her for the first time i thought she was beautiful, Loving amazing blue eyes, lovely cute smile (with dimples) your laugh is amazing...so infectious....basically theres so much about this girl that i like...Dresses really well...Her personality is amazing and the best part is that we get on really well and on top of it all, im normally a very funny guy but with her, i always have her in stitches, but wait for it...yes...she's taken!

God..doesn't this type of situation just suck? if she wasnt i would ask her out in a split second! now i know what everyone is going to say...leave her alone etc, but i dont have any motive to do anything about it. More to the point of if anyone else has been in the situation..what they did?

Thanks in advance guys...

You have no indication that she likes you, and she's taken. Open and shut case, tbh.

I wouldn't get myself in a mess over it until you at least have some idea that she might like you. In fact, even then I wouldn't get in a mess.

LegacyUser

'thank you for all your replies....i was out with her tonite and she seemed very interested in me...maybe it was the drink...i dont know...but i think she is simply amazing... i know how the whole trying it on with a work college works...

but also..being in my position its different...she'd be the perfect girlfriend for me....

apologies about the rant...but she is so....ahhh...ill stop there..lol

thank you for your advice...'