Lads, girlfriend on girl action??

Vegeta

Forgive me if this has been asked before,

Lads if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I have been thinking about this for the last few days and I don't think I would be, does that make me weird.

If she slept with another fella I'd be furious so does that make me insecure, sexist or what. So I ask again

if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

Karl Hungus

Vegeta wrote:

Lads if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I'd demand to watch next time.

cichlid child

if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?[/QUOTE]
not if i could watch and not with me ma

biko

poll?

Mr. Presentable

biko wrote:

poll?

Pole?

Crucifix

Yeah I'd be upset.
I think guys are more bothered it if it's another guy because it makes them feel insecure (like the OP suggested).

layke

Nah, wouldn't be mad. But those things tend to feck up a relationship so I wouldn't be all for it.

That said I broke up with her last week so yeah, i'm all for it.

jester77

Vegeta wrote:

Forgive me if this has been asked before,

Lads if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I have been thinking about this for the last few days and I don't think I would be, does that make me weird.

If she slept with another fella I'd be furious so does that make me insecure, sexist or what. So I ask again

if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

Depends on the relationship really, would your girlfriend be mad if you had sex with another guy?

If not then I don't see a problem!

cichlid child

biko wrote:

poll?

i don,t think i would mind her having sex with a poll either

Reku

Cheating is cheating regardless of who is with IMO.

Duggy747

I'd probably be more pissed if she shagged a woman. It'd be like: "Jesus, what did I do that forced her to lick carpet!! Am I that bad!?!" But then eventually I'd forgive her, get her to desribe her encounter in detail to her, and then ask her if she's up for a threesome?

fifth

The fact she asked is a sign for concern! Be careful here it could be something she'll go and do regardless!

If she doesn't involve you then I'd be thinking NO!

It'd be cheating! You wouldn't want her having sex with another guy would you?

Another women, technically is another person she's being passionate with instead of you.

seamus

A guy naturally makes you feel more uncomfortable because instantly you can compare everything about yourself to him. You can't compare yourself to a woman, so the whole, "Do she like the other person more than me" thing is muddy, so you're not so insecure. You can be confident that you have a bigger penis than she does and that you're stronger and more manly than she is.
On a baser level, your instincts only want your man goo inside of her, so someone else's man goo getting inside of her is a problem. Another woman doesn't have man goo, so the problem isn't there.

I don't think I'd be as mad as if it was with a guy, but I wouldn't be overjoyed, and I'd definitely be wondering if she's going to switch sides. On principle alone, it'd be time for a serious chat. Emotional cheating can be even more upsetting than the physical act itself - the thought that the other person allowed themselves to become emotionally intimate with someone other than you.

Dragan

Cheating is cheating as far as I am concerned. It is simply going outside of the relationship for something that you don't seem to be getting from your partner, whatever that may be.

PeakOutput

i probab.y wudnt be as mad but id be pretty pissed off she didnt wana hav a 3sum

nice1franko

Intriguing question. hmmmmm...

Right, it's still cheating as far as I'm concerend but unlike if it was with a bloke, I wouldn't be mad.

I'd definitely be thinking that something's a bit fukced up though and I'd probably be wondering if it's going to work out long term. I'd probably surmise that no, it won't work out long term.

So then I'd think, well that's a pity... but sure may as well make the most of it and stick around long enough for a gang bang before I sling my hook!

edit ah no I'd probably say... not sure what I'd say actually. Intriguing question op

Agamemnon

Vegeta wrote:

Lads if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I have been thinking about this for the last few days and I don't think I would be, does that make me weird.

No, that's not weird. I only see my girlfriend at weekends and we're always joking that she's getting it on with her female housemate during the week. I would like to watch and join in though.

Tar.Aldarion

Yes I would be mad. I would request the video and boot her. Hmmf.

Gumbyman

Depends on who it was with. If it was a hot bird who we would never see again (say on holidays) then grand. If it was a minger or a butch bird then I'd be very disappointed to be honest and I don't think our relationship could recover afterwards. I'd always be thinking "God you have bad taste in women. Maybe you have bad taste in men. Am I ugly? I'm so fat. I wonder what's on telly. My hole is itchy."

stooge

my ex once told me she had slept with another woman, she also offered a threesome with another girl, on the condition that we could have another 3some with another fella. I told here I didnt mind her sleeping with girls but on no condition could she cheat with a fella. I refused the 3some offers also and soon after we broke up.

In hindsight I should have got that first 2f1M 3some out of the way and then dumped her.......hmmm....


(walks off to get ex's mobile number)

Reku

stooge wrote:

my ex once told me she had slept with another woman, she also offered a threesome with another girl, on the condition that we could have another 3some with another fella. I told here I didnt mind her sleeping with girls but on no condition could she cheat with a fella. I refused the 3some offers also and soon after we broke up.

In hindsight I should have got that first 2f1M 3some out of the way and then dumped her.......hmmm....


(walks off to get ex's mobile number)

But who's to say that she wouldn't be sneaky and either:
1. invite her pre-op transgendered friend (m->f), if you're really drunk it might take time to notice
2. get her friend to bring a strap on

If I were you anyway I'd figure that she has problems with the thought of being with just one person so probably best to move on.

Zebra3

stooge wrote:

In hindsight I should have got that first 2f1M 3some out of the way and then dumped her.......hmmm....

With foresight that's what you should have done....

ScumLord

I'd be extremely pissed off that I wasn't included.

Vegeta

seamus wrote:

A guy naturally makes you feel more uncomfortable because instantly you can compare everything about yourself to him. You can't compare yourself to a woman, so the whole, "Do she like the other person more than me" thing is muddy, so you're not so insecure. You can be confident that you have a bigger penis than she does and that you're stronger and more manly than she is.
On a baser level, your instincts only want your man goo inside of her, so someone else's man goo getting inside of her is a problem. Another woman doesn't have man goo, so the problem isn't there.

You my friend should write sex ed books aimed at confused teens

hmm i just asked him he said he's be mad if i didn't let him watch

and as well whats with the threads aimed at just at men , sexist IMO

this is AH not BGRH
i feel so left out

pwd

I would be very mad. I think I'd have to break up with her.

Gator

My girlfriend came home with one of her friends last saturday night and started kissing her full on right in front of me, she got me a beer and let me watch so I wasnt mad

Your such a big liar
I demand to see proof
you big liar you

Gator

On my life, it was a most pleasent experience

nesf

Dragan wrote:

Cheating is cheating as far as I am concerned. It is simply going outside of the relationship for something that you don't seem to be getting from your partner, whatever that may be.

Exactly. If you aren't bothered by it you probably don't take the relationship very seriously.

Vegeta

Just for the record this hasn't happened to me and probably never will.

It was just a question

Its weird some of the answers have changed my perspective a little.

aequinoctium

ask to join in

Cake Fiend

I wouldn't consider it the same as if she was with another bloke (not sure I could explain why, although Seamus' theory makes sense). I'd give out about her not considering my feelings beforehand, but I know my heart wouldn't be in it.

godtabh

Karl Hungus wrote:

I'd demand to watch next time.

I'd demand to be involved next time as long as she was hot. If she wasnt hot she might as well be doing a man!

watna

I asked my other half this, I thought the responses here were very interesting. He said that if I did it because I only fancied women the I would be a lesbian and cheating on him and it would be over. If I thought i was bi and was experimenting and it was a once off it'd be ok... and then of course he said the threesome thing!!

andrew1977

Vegeta wrote:

Forgive me if this has been asked before,

Lads if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I have been thinking about this for the last few days and I don't think I would be, does that make me weird.

If she slept with another fella I'd be furious so does that make me insecure, sexist or what. So I ask again

if your girlfriend had sex with another woman would you be mad?

I'd ask her the next time can i join in

Tzetze

Didn't read through all the replies, so I'm not sure if this has been posted already or not, apologies if so.

It makes sense for a bloke to be happy with a situation like this. Whille he's off chucking his spears he can be content in the knowledge that Mrs Ugg isn't being pregnated by any cave-crawling cassanovas. Ensuring the longevity of his own take on the genetic prowess of spear-chucking, etc.

Dave!

Gator wrote:

My girlfriend came home with one of her friends last saturday night and started kissing her full on right in front of me, she got me a beer and let me watch so I wasnt mad

Hawt. Pics please.

Zzippy

Couple of good theories there.
Mine also based on the ol' primal urge - man sees his woman with another guy - "uh oh, might not be my DNA in the sprog that results". Man sees his woman with another woman - man thinks* "hmm, maybe I can impregnate the 2 of em and spread my seed a little wider"

As for my own personal view - if she's bi and as long as she's doing it for lust, not love, and its with a good looking girl, hell yeah! If its for any other reason your relationship would be threatened and dump, dump, dump!


*obviously its not the big head doing the thinking...

SimpleSam06

If shes doing it with a savage on-a-first-name-basis-with-supermacs-staff hairy tattooed wobbly wilderbeest of a woman, I'd say no, because its obviously not sexual attraction, but something more, which is bound to strain the relationship, if only on grounds of poor taste.

If shes requesting some quality time to knock boots with some fit and flexible platinum blond gymnast who can lick the back of her own knees, its probably just red hot throbbing carnal lust, so fair enough, let her have at it.

If she wants to do it with one of her friends, thats grand because the friend is probably only using her to get to you, so if you play your cards right you can get working on that hareem.

If shes legendary drunk and this seems like a good idea, it is! Recriminatory morning after finger pointing can be alleviated with "sure wha' I was langers".

So the trick is to make sure she makes friends with hot gymnasts who find you interesting and get everyone plastered.

Slutmonkey57b

Gymnasts have no tits. Where's the fun in that?

SimpleSam06

Slutmonkey57b wrote:

Gymnasts have no tits. Where's the fun in that?

Paint them on her buttocks, lad!

luckat

I'm sure most girls would agree to a trade: they'll have girl-on-girl accent with their best girlfriend in front of you, as long as you'll then have boy-on-boy action with your best boyfriend in front of them. Only fair!

Dun laoire

Believe it or not but my Shar has actually had carpet for supper once before but that was a long time ago and unfortunately i wasnt around to hold ze camera. She has no interest in the same sex sadly. Anyway the question is would it make you feel less of a man if she did cheat on you with another woman? My answer would be no, but if she slept with another man i would feel pretty sh1t and depressed.

Agent Smith

i'd be very upset.

faceman

To quote arnie:

"eating is not cheating!"