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Have I messed up?

  • 26-07-2007 8:51am
    #1
    worriednow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    First of all, I am not a virgin and I know my bf is, we have been going out for more than 6 months and I felt I trusted him enough to sleep with him. So the other night when we were fooling around, I felt ready and thought he did too, but before we got to far he stopped, saying he wasn't ready. This is perfectly fine with me, I really care for him and am happy to wait til he is ready, but I'm worried I took it too far, too fast and now I'm afraid he thinks I'm a slut. He is the type of guy who doesn't really talk about his feelings, and by his reaction I'm sure I made him feel uncomfortable. I'm afraid he'll never look at me the same way again now.....or trust me.
    any advice would be great as I am at a loss for what to do now:(


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  • #2
    kmick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,375 ✭✭✭kmick


    He probably just got the fright of his life. Give him a while to get used to the idea. Im sure he will be the next one to bring it up.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    When i first started seeing my girlfriend, I was a virgin, she was not. On the first few occasions it took me a while to relax, get comfortable being naked around her before I could move on to the next step. I was very nervous and I would say that your boyfriend was the same.
    As long as you both care for each other and can focus on the other non-penetrative aspects you will become more comfortable around each other and before long he will be wondering what the problem was! :)


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