Question for the ladies

Jrembin

If you found out your husband screwed some guy who was still in school would you be angry mainly at your husband or would you want to kill the guy?

Attol

Well your husband would be the one who betrayed you. It was his decision to do it, and as they say it takes two to tango so he most likely was a fully willing participant especially seeing as he's the older of the two.

EDIT : Basically what did the other guy do wrong? Probably didn't even know about you. Your husband is the one who let you down.

Mimikyu

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genfoley

I would blame your husband for giving into temptation - sorry but we all get tempted, you cant kill the other guy, he was probably unattached - your husband should have remembered his commitment to you Sorry....hope it works out

Carrigart Exile

when you say he is still at school, are we talking about a minor?

Beruthiel

Jrembin wrote:

If you found out your husband screwed some guy who was still in school would you be angry mainly at your husband or would you want to kill the guy?

You're not giving us much info here but either way, this is all down to your husband and your relationship, not the third party.

Miss Fluff

Husband at fault 100% (on many levels)

Mr. Incognito

Troll? Is that you?

Beruthiel

kindly read the charter setanta before I ban you.
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Tar.Aldarion

Lol, Setanta.


I don't see why you should be angry at anybody other than your husband from the info given.

Orlee

If my husband was sleeping with a guy I suppose I'd be worried about his sexuality first and then the fact that he's cheeting - Maybe he's a bit confused?

Mr. Incognito

Apologies. I was dubious as to the sincerity of the original post.

I think the answer to your question is rather obvious. i don't think the school boy marched her up the aisle and promised to be faithful. Any reasonable wife would be angry at her husband. In the short term shock she may also lash out at the boy but given his young age I would doubt it. It's fairly obvious where they blame lies.

Oryx

Why be angry at the other person? Even if they knew your husbands situation, your talking about an obviously younger man who has probably no knowledge and certainly no interest or care in your relationship. The betrayal is 100% the husbands fault.

Nevyn

Define school ? if the young person was under 17 then your husband may have broken the law as well as destroyed his marriage.

Victor

Jrembin wrote:

or would you want to kill the guy?

Violence rarely solves anything.

I think you and your husband need to look at your relationship, especially regarding him (a) cheating (b) with a male (c) that may be underage. That suggests a lot of deviousness, deceit and possibly power issues.

BENJAMIN61

thats gift

biko

Jrembin wrote:

If you found out your husband screwed some guy who was still in school would you be angry mainly at your husband or would you want to kill the guy?

You are the one in school, isn't it?

neuro-praxis

biko I think you got it.

OP, don't screw strange men you don't know. This man is obviously not someone to be trusted. And keep the hell away from his wife.

LadyE

I think your husband is at fault - has also broke the law.