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LegacyUser

I travelled across the country to meet someone from an online dating site. We had been chatting & texting for a couple of months and finally got to meet. I booked a hotel and went to see her for 2 days.

The first day was great, we got on fine - like we'd known each other for years - and arranged to meet the next day. Didn't hear anything from her by the afternoon so I texted again but no reply. I tried again texting and eventually she said she had been sickly all day and couldn't meet up.

Anyway, after the spending the day on my own I tried to contact her a few more times but no reply. I had to go home. Even now, a week later, I've heard nothing from her.

I later discovered she had been online during the evening she was supposed to be sick.

I don't mind that it seems she's gone off me but why do I get the silent treatment for no good reason? Even a text from her saying "I had a lousy time after all. Go away." would be better than nothing.

How can you get on great with someone one day then the next day they totally blank you? Why are people like this?

Gary ITR

veryconfused wrote:

I don't mind that it seems she's gone off me but why do I get the silent treatment for no good reason? Even a text from her saying "I had a lousy time after all. Go away." would be better than nothing.

You would think that a message like that would be better but in reality it wouldn't, just forget her and move on, don't get hung up on it and just chalk it down to experience

biko

It would too! It's the not knowing that kills you.

OP, sorry she was such a bitch. In her head she probably "didn't want to hurt you" not understanding that what she did is even worse.

littlebitdull

Maybe she wanted you to phone on the second day...not text ? Maybe she felt it was kinda rude of you to only text?

Maybe.

Or Maybe not.

But just chalk it up to experience and move on...

biko

I met a girl and we got on great but suddenly she just stopped texting/mailing back. I left it for 2 weeks and the mailed and texted once each.
She replied along the lines of "I like you but am very confused at the moment with other stuff in my life". I said "fine, let me know when your sorted". Never heard back from her. Grrr, she could have said that earlier and not left me hanging wondering :mad:

DRakE

How exactly is it rude to text?

also, you can be online even tho your sick :rolleyes:

LegacyUser

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DRakE wrote:

also, you can be online even tho your sick :rolleyes:

True, but she was obviously too sick to text.....'

Placebo

leave it, you wouldnt want to be with someone like that anyway...

Maple

sickening OP, but chalk it down and move on. She's not worth it. No backbone in her at all, you deserve better.

Jazz Maverick

do you know where she lives? if you do, you could go back, smash the joint up and rape her cat?

just an idea.

BKtje

Aye i too prefer when people come out and just say, sorry not interested instead of leaving you wondering. She might feel that shes sparing you or it could be that she doesnt want to deal with explaining it to you.

Either way move on imo.

Nevyn

Jazz Maverick banned for unhelpful posting, advocating violence, not reading the charter and being an idiot.

Berbatov

Em obviously she was just spineless. For you to travel all that way, go to the trouble and expense of staying in a hotel only for her to not even return a text or something - the word 'bitch' springs to mind.

Count yourself lucky and chalk it down to experience - obviously you're better off without someone like that in your life.