i hate this

LegacyUser

its funny....how i realized i...yes i speak of myself and myself alone. I am unimportant and serve as a...as a backup or just somebody everyone considers to be "friends" with them...no matter who you are you would have realised i don't belong to whatever clique you belong to and am a reject..."i am all yet am not a single one"...and i shall NEVER fit in a particular group becuase while in a group you are LIMITED about what you do...(e.x. prep:ugghh that shirt with those shoes?!? goth:dude your too happy today what the ****....) as you see it seems all groups people portay you as a part of it and find it unappealing and stupid if you act outside your stereotype....being where i currently am now(which is who's point of view it is from) is where these limitations don't apply to me...and as i may have to forfeit many social luxuries(many....) i realise my freedom compared to others comes with a terrible shameful truth......i may be outside EVERY box...BUT in almost all cases....i am....distinctly....Alone.....and will always be becuase of my nature......and i will remain here by choice...and i want people to relize i am not inferior or superior...but on a different plane and see everything in a different manner.....and shall always be here rather by choice than by force....................for there is no force(theoraticlly speaking stopping me from staying here other than will)..and i....unlike many others...MAY NOT be made of solid steel...but....i NEVER break...for that...my so called "friends" is weakness....

paulie.walnuts

Eh what's your point or did you swallow a dictionary?

Naos

Eh: Why not just choose friends who are mature/copped on?

Then when they ask you why you are doing a certain thing, which will not affect the health of others, tell them because its your choice and you want to.

stipey

Maybe you need to think more about being your own person. Wear what you want, be as happy as you want and so on. If you are changing your personality/style/humour to fit in with a certain group of people then they aren't really friends with you.... more a modified version of you.

For what its worth when I was 15/16 I knocked about with a big group of friends from school. I never minded going to school because I knew that in between every class we would chat, wind each other up and laugh constantly. Gradually they got to going knacker drinking and smoking hash. Although i had nothing against it, it wasn't my thing so I would leave them to it. Eventually they only ever talked about 3 things (a) how drunk or stoned they had been, (b) the next time they were going to get drunk or stoned and (c) where they would get the booze (probably Woodies at the time) and/or weed. I just walked away from it all. I could have gone along with it and joined them and could have listened to their chat and pretended to be enthralled at their "crazy" exploits but I figured that would make me a fake. So tough and all as it was I just left them to it and made new friends.

Saruman

I think the Poster Is saying he found this quote on the net and he hates it?
If its real and this is how he thinks and speaks to others, then its no wonder he is alone.
Sorry but i do not believe this. Everything he said is a generalisation and not true as people are people.

Marksie

Mr. Liquid: Could you elucidate what exactly your issue is please?

It is somewhat difficult to ascertain what advice you are in fact looking for

If I read it right you are saying that you hate having to conform to others ideas or preconceptions???

IF that is what you are driving at, then oit is more iportant that you are true to who you are and not as others see you.
By all means think outside the box, but consider also that boxes people would put you into overlap, so it is entirely possible that you can be partiall inside mor than one box, consequently having different groups of friends allows you to fit different aspects of yourself into differnt boxes.

Now I hope i read what you are saying aright, but that is my take on it

Mexicola

That you Rozie?

Maple

not understanding the issue at all.

IANAL (hullaballoo's test a/c)

mr. liquid wrote:

its funny....how i realized i...yes i speak of myself and myself alone. I am unimportant and serve as a...as a backup or just somebody everyone considers to be "friends" with them...no matter who you are you would have realised i don't belong to whatever clique you belong to and am a reject..."i am all yet am not a single one"...and i shall NEVER fit in a particular group becuase while in a group you are LIMITED about what you do...(e.x. prep:ugghh that shirt with those shoes?!? goth:dude your too happy today what the ****....) as you see it seems all groups people portay you as a part of it and find it unappealing and stupid if you act outside your stereotype....being where i currently am now(which is who's point of view it is from) is where these limitations don't apply to me...and as i may have to forfeit many social luxuries(many....) i realise my freedom compared to others comes with a terrible shameful truth......i may be outside EVERY box...BUT in almost all cases....i am....distinctly....Alone.....and will always be becuase of my nature......and i will remain here by choice...and i want people to relize i am not inferior or superior...but on a different plane and see everything in a different manner.....and shall always be here rather by choice than by force....................for there is no force(theoraticlly speaking stopping me from staying here other than will)..and i....unlike many others...MAY NOT be made of solid steel...but....i NEVER break...for that...my so called "friends" is weakness....

That's all bullsh*t. 'Boxes', 'stereotypes', 'prep', 'goth', 'blah blah blah'. All of those categorisations are in your head. People don't define themselves (or others) like that unless they're chronically insecure.

Everyone's an individual, and no one fits into a category.

Placebo

i think u need to make yourself a simpsons avatar:rolleyes:

DRakE

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spinandscribble

have you tried emo?