asking a girl out...

Timmy_d

ok started a job about 2 months ago,just weekends doing deliveries...debating whether to ask this girl out that works there,she seems really nice and we chat away(small talk) but at any one time i would only be talking to her for a max of 3 to 4 mins cause i gotta go n do me work...ANYWAY was leavin work today and said "see you next week" to which she replied "no im finished on wednesday" and im like **** cause i thought she would be there for the summer...how should i go about askin her out,will she think its weird as its so little time,would i ring the shop and ask to talk to her or what...dont wanna let this one go,if she says no feck it i asked her anyway....any ideas??

RawK

they way i see this from a quick observation is,
she's leaving, and theres a good chance of never meeting her again
so why not ask her out? you've nothing to lose if she says no dude! because its not like theres going to be akwardness around the work place or a stint in friendship etc...

i say go for it, when oppurtunity knocks, answer the door man!

GhostInTheRuins

Didn't I just read this in after hours?

Anyways, just ask her, if she says no, **** it, you won't see her again.

Maple

ask her out. you've nothing to lose. she's leaving anyway so if she doesn't go for it then you're not going to be seeing her anytime at work.

seize the day.

Timmy_d

so i called her and asked her out,she said she is going on hols tomm for 2 weeks but will ring me when she gets back...happy days (i think)

Maple

Timmy_d wrote:

so i called her and asked her out,she said she is going on hols tomm for 2 weeks but will ring me when she gets back...happy days (i think)

fingers crossed!

Gary ITR

Timmy_d wrote:

so i called her and asked her out,she said she is going on hols tomm for 2 weeks but will ring me when she gets back...happy days (i think)

Ah man she's gonna come back with all sorts of diseases..

paulie.walnuts

Good work original poster. Do you have her mobile number?
If you do you should shoot her a text while she is away to remind her you're still interested and it's in no way stalkerish.

Timmy_d

she said she would ring when she got back so will leave it at that,dont wanna be txtn when shes away on hols...balls in her court now

Timmy_d

ok so she would have been back wednesday gone,havnt heard from her since but i txt her yesterday to say hey hows things,how was the holiday...no reply
i should just leave it at this shouldnt i,her loss...

cocoa

texts are easily ignored/forgotten and arrangements made two weeks previously are also easy to forget, give a her a call and get a real answer instead of an implied one.

Timmy_d

that could make it uncomfortable for her,shur feck it il leave it in her hands...if a girl asked me and i fancy'd her id let her know...

dlofnep

let it roll for now.. if she's interested she will text back. don't dare feel bad for trying! you only live once and if you don't try, you'll never succeed.

lisajane

Go for it. I fancy the arse of some fella i work with. Im waiting for him to make the first move cos im scared of asking him.

TheJoker

lisajane wrote:

Go for it. I fancy the arse of some fella i work with. Im waiting for him to make the first move cos im scared of asking him.

Sounds like you should act on your own advise.

Or maybe this is a case of "do as I say, not as I do"?

Carsinian Thau

Timmy_d wrote:

ok so she would have been back wednesday gone,havnt heard from her since but i txt her yesterday to say hey hows things,how was the holiday...no reply
i should just leave it at this shouldnt i,her loss...

Just give her a quick ring. It won't be that uncomfortable for her. It'd be worse if you actually showed up where she was.
Thw worse that will happen is that there will be a few awkward pauses before she eventually tells you she has to go and then that's it.
Or she may still be interested (but just have forgotten) and your second call could be the start of the relationship.
You won't know until you try...

Timmy_d

Carsinian Thau wrote:

Just give her a quick ring. It won't be that uncomfortable for her. It'd be worse if you actually showed up where she was.
Thw worse that will happen is that there will be a few awkward pauses before she eventually tells you she has to go and then that's it.
Or she may still be interested (but just have forgotten) and your second call could be the start of the relationship.
You won't know until you try...

A quick solution to that is she doesnt answer if i ring,which would just frustrate me...highly unlikely she forgot