Body language - Are the signs always right?

workaccount

When your talking to a girl and shes messing with her hair or touching it and all that does it always mean she likes you?

The_B_Man

yep, especially if its ur pubes!

uberpixie

workaccount wrote:

When your talking to a girl and shes messing with her hair or touching it and all that does it always mean she likes you?

maybe she is just a vain bitch:D

Orange69

She could have tourettes...

patrickolee

or crabs

Rhyme

Body language is easy to fake.

Gran Hermano

Buy her a bottle of anti-head lice shampoo.

The_B_Man

try teabag her and see what she says!

Thrill

She's probably just got fleas.

admiralofthefleet

i second the tourettes

Ruu_Old

workaccount wrote:

When your talking to a girl and shes messing with her hair or touching it and all that does it always mean she likes you?

She is passing on the super aids.

thelordofcheese

or worse, teh gheyness....

biko

Check what www.videojug.com has to say

FunkZ

thelordofcheese wrote:

teh gheyness

Watch out for this man. Does say loike or roysh while playing with your hair? She'll try and make you get a side fringe next...

workaccount

Ara jayus lads I was serious.

kevmy

workaccount wrote:

Ara jayus lads I was serious.

Serious sh1t/moaning in PI, stupid stuff in AH

The Gnome

workaccount wrote:

Ara jayus lads I was serious.

/serious hat

No, one thing like hair touching on it's own is not a clear signal of interest and can easily be faked by someone aware of body language. What you need to look for are cluster signals which are combinations of different signs which are much harder to fake.

Better still are automatic body responses which are almost impossible to fake but just as hard to detect, such as pupil dilation, breathing and heart rate and skin flushing.

/serious hat

Slip her the hand and see if you get a slap, simply and concise body language.

WindSock

I'm always touching my hair because it's always getting in the way, so not really.

Thrill

workaccount wrote:

Ara jayus lads I was serious.

Jokes aside, if you want serious answers then AH is probably the last place to post your question.


Personal issues maybe.....

http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127

workaccount

boreds wrote:

I'm always touching my hair because it's always getting in the way, so not really.

Yeah but this is unneccesarily touching hair. It's not because it's in the way.

MooseJam

I like touching myself too

Piste

Probably doesn't mean anything, she's probably playing with it without realising it, my hair's curly and I'm always twisting it round my finger without realising.

The Hill Billy

The Gnome wrote:

What you need to look for are cluster signals which are combinations of different signs which are much harder to fake.

Better still are automatic body responses which are almost impossible to fake...

I agree with The Gnome. "Cluster Signals" are the way to know if this young lady is eager to receive your attentions.

If she is toying with her hair, has nips on her like chapel hat pegs & is frothing at the gash - chances are you're in.



If she's just toying with her hair then I'd imagine that it is just something she does when in the company of someone who bores the bejaysus out of her.

Reku

She's just greasing it up so it seems more plausible when she says she can't see you tonight as she has to wash her hair.:D

Rhyme

MooseJam wrote:

I like touching myself too

Can i tough you too?

Tar.Aldarion

Everybody is touching everybody on my watch.

AlmightyCushion

Who cares if she's in to you. Chloroform ftw.

J.S. Pill

AlmightyCushion wrote:

Who cares if she's in to you. Chloroform ftw.

HammerHeadGym

Touching the hair on it's own is an indication of intrest though by no means definitive. I recommend the book understanding body language by Allan and Barbara Pease. I work in a people orientated job and this book has saved my neck on dozens of occasions, because I could read peoples moods as they changed and could adapt my strategy acordingly.

It also got me laid. Twice. So, in terms of getting sex industry workers in to do the same job, even skanky ones, the book paid for itself many times over.

Ishmael

Usually Its a self comfort thing, she may be doing it without even realizing it.
Everybody does something similar. For instance i touch my face a bit or scratch my head even though its not itchy when i'm talking to people.

It doesn't directly mean she is into you but if it is part of a group of other signals could well mean she is.

If she does it while maintaining a good amount of eye contact and interest in the conversation then i would say it is a positive sign.

If she's looking around the room while doing it, she's probably bored and or not interested.

If she's looking at the floor/her feet/your shoulders/table..etc while making brief glances towards your face - It could possibly be lack of confidence.

To be honest, you'll get a better read on her from eye movements, the way she is oriented towards you and her facial expressions.

Reku

How close she stands to you (unless odour or noise levels are factors in the how close) and how much physical contact she initiates would also be good indicators.

petes

The_B_Man wrote:

yep, especially if its ur pubes!

I lol'd.

Hobbes

farohar wrote:

How close she stands to you

Actually how close a person stands to you is defined on the culture and where they live. City folk people are more liable to stand closer to you, while country people will stand further away.

Loads of stuff out there on NLP. I recommend reading.

Reku

Hobbes wrote:

Actually how close a person stands to you is defined on the culture and where they live. City folk people are more liable to stand closer to you, while country people will stand further away.

This is true but by comparing to the others around you you'll still get a fair idea, if she stands much closer than the rest it's a pretty good sign since being social creatures our minds are geared to check that we don't behave strangely by what appears to be commonly acceptable (i.e. if the rest stand back from you odds are so will she, if they huddle in close, then again so will she).
Also country Vs. city has less of an impact than actual national culture in this regard.

cance

Piste wrote:

Probably doesn't mean anything, she's probably playing with it without realising it, my hair's curly and I'm always twisting it round my finger without realising.

holy shíté balls, the size of your sig!

_blank_

Piste wrote:

Probably doesn't mean anything, she's probably playing with it without realising it, my hair's curly and I'm always twisting it round my finger without realising.

You just fancy everyone, you harlot.

Reku

seansouth wrote:

You just fancy everyone, you harlot.

Tsk, tsk, such a mysogynist viewpoint, if a man can fancy everything with a hole without being judged so can a woman.:D

patrickolee

farohar wrote:

Tsk, tsk, such a mysogynist viewpoint, if a man can fancy everything with a hole without being judged so can a woman.:D

Harlot.

AlmightyCushion

patrickolee wrote:

Harlot.

Queen of the harpies. Take your crown your majesty. Queen of the harpies.

Brian Capture

workaccount wrote:

When your talking to a girl and shes messing with her hair or touching it and all that does it always mean she likes you?

if it's her pubic hair, then yes.

patrickolee

AlmightyCushion wrote:

Queen of the harpies. Take your crown your majesty. Queen of the harpies.

ty ty ty, we are pleased

Kinetic^

If she's playing with her hair it means she wants you to kiss her.



If you happen to get a kick in the nuts I can't be held responsible though!!!

AlmightyCushion

Kenny 5 wrote:

If she's playing with her hair it means she wants you to kiss her.



If you happen to get a kick in the nuts I can't be held responsible though!!!

On her lady lips.

Reku

Brian Capture wrote:

if it's her pubic hair, then yes.

No, that'd usually be crabs.:D