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Help With Parents

  • 27-06-2007 3:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My mother and father have been married for 20 years and they have 3children me and my two younger brother im 19 and im getting ready to move out completely. For quite some time things between my parents have not been good they are arguing alot and my mother doesnt want to talk to my father this lead them to seek counseling which prompted my father to try alot harder i have now just discovered that my mother likes someone else whom she met abroad. Now im in a situation where i cant hate my mother because of the pain it would put her through but i feel i cant feel any other way towards her because what she just told me. However she did say that nothing happened which 80% of me trusts but the small 20% cant believe anything she now says. I need help on how to deal with this because it is tearing me up inside


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  • #2
    mkdon05
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 766 ✭✭✭mkdon05


    what_do_i_do wrote:
    My mother and father have been married for 20 years and they have 3children me and my two younger brother im 19 and im getting ready to move out completely. For quite some time things between my parents have not been good they are arguing alot and my mother doesnt want to talk to my father this lead them to seek counseling which prompted my father to try alot harder i have now just discovered that my mother likes someone else whom she met abroad. Now im in a situation where i cant hate my mother because of the pain it would put her through but i feel i cant feel any other way towards her because what she just told me. However she did say that nothing happened which 80% of me trusts but the small 20% cant believe anything she now says. I need help on how to deal with this because it is tearing me up inside

    This is a very hard situation to be in, but you have to realise that people can drift apart. Its just part of life. Nowadays you should be at least thankfull that your childhood was within a proper family environment. Your mother is an adult and obviously doesnt have the same feelings for your father anymore. I think you should just try and take time to get your head around whats going on.


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