Two girls want me, i dont know what to do

LegacyUser

Ok i've been seeing a girl for a while, i am 25 so is she, at this stage were pretty much f**k buddies we may see each other once a week,shag then either i go home or she does. Anyway i've been out with her friends a couple of times and one in particular has taken a shine to me she asked for my number one night as she said all her friends had a great laugh with me and that i should come out with them all again. I think she is very sexy, she's got a very voluptious body nice lips and great boobs but shes great fun aswell we always dance and i was out there a few weeks ago and she txt to see if i was in a place in town i wasnt and she said she was there and i should come up. So i went up and we flirted and danced and had a great time and we've pretty much txted every day since, shes just 22.



The other girl i have known for about ten years she has went out with a couple of acquiantances (not good friends just people i know and would talk to occasionaly) she is currently going out with an acquantance but we
have been good friends for a long time and there has been many times when something has almost happened between us. We had planned to go on aJ1 together but with other friends but she broke her ankle bringing her backpack down the stairs on the way to the airport!! and me having girlfriends.
Anyway we were out on sunday about 5 of us and she was there and the girl from above was txtin me and she asked if it was my f**k buddy txtin m he i said no i kinda like someone else etc, so usually when we are out she might txt me while shes sitting across the table from me or usually once she has got home she txts me and things get flirty. She is very petite and has an athletic body.

Frankly i am confused at this point my f**k buddy is out of the picture,

The f**k buddies friend is really cool and we get on well and shes sexy and intelligent and funny but with the age gap are we maybe a different stages of our lives, i want to have a steady girlfriend and not be out in the pub every single weekend

The girl i have known for 10 years is the relationship type and she is all of the abover aswell but i kinda get the impression that she thinks i am hers and no one elses.

togster

Whichone? wrote:

Frankly i am confused at this point my f**k buddy is out of the picture,

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So am i.

Victor

Are there 3 women?

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How about you ask them if they are interested in a relationship / whatever? It might saimplify things hugely.

easyontheeye

you lost me too

silvine

You've lost me too- nice journey though!

Rb

Erm, a 3 year age gap is nothing when you're 25 and the girl is 22.

LegacyUser

I'll tell U what - DO them all and keep sthum !

spinandscribble

if your in a steady relationship whats wrong with thinking you're hers and she's yours ?? :confusion:

The Freeman

MikeHoncho

I was about to reply but then went back and reread it and took a different meaning the second time. my head hurts.

estar

Whichone? wrote:

Ok i've been seeing a girl for a while, i am 25 so is she, at this stage were pretty much f**k buddies we may see each other once a week,shag then either i go home or she does. Anyway i've been out with her friends a couple of times and one in particular has taken a shine to me she asked for my number one night as she said all her friends had a great laugh with me and that i should come out with them all again. I think she is very sexy, she's got a very voluptious body nice lips and great boobs but shes great fun aswell we always dance and i was out there a few weeks ago and she txt to see if i was in a place in town i wasnt and she said she was there and i should come up. So i went up and we flirted and danced and had a great time and we've pretty much txted every day since, shes just 22.



The other girl i have known for about ten years she has went out with a couple of acquiantances (not good friends just people i know and would talk to occasionaly) she is currently going out with an acquantance but we
have been good friends for a long time and there has been many times when something has almost happened between us. We had planned to go on aJ1 together but with other friends but she broke her ankle bringing her backpack down the stairs on the way to the airport!! and me having girlfriends.
Anyway we were out on sunday about 5 of us and she was there and the girl from above was txtin me and she asked if it was my f**k buddy txtin m he i said no i kinda like someone else etc, so usually when we are out she might txt me while shes sitting across the table from me or usually once she has got home she txts me and things get flirty. She is very petite and has an athletic body.

Frankly i am confused at this point my f**k buddy is out of the picture,

The f**k buddies friend is really cool and we get on well and shes sexy and intelligent and funny but with the age gap are we maybe a different stages of our lives, i want to have a steady girlfriend and not be out in the pub every single weekend

The girl i have known for 10 years is the relationship type and she is all of the abover aswell but i kinda get the impression that she thinks i am hers and no one elses.

grow up and stop seeing so many girls at once

there would be no decision to make if you really liked one of them,
there would be only one you would want to be with

f*ck buddies are a bad idea if you want my opinion, it never works out
as someone always gets hurt.

wanting not to spend every weekend in the pub is NOT a reason to
want a girlfriend, it sounds very shallow tbh

you think you are all that because you have three women on the go

having three women that dont know about each other is easy

having three women who know about each other is going to be hard

especially since they all know each other.

and they will find out,,,,,,as women talk..............

i advise caution!!!!

GrumPy

Whichone? wrote:

but with the age gap are we maybe a different stages of our lives, i want to have a steady girlfriend and not be out in the pub every single weekend

age gap???

The_Conductor

My head hurts......
Slow down, take a deep breath, and stop and slowly read what you've just written..... How many people are involved? What are you actually asking- two girls want you- or more, or what?
What are you asking? Are you looking for advice as to which (if any) of the girls to go for? Are you capable to dating one girl monogomously? Do you want to?

What are you actually asking- its not clear from your post? Don't play the girls off against each other- its not fair, and it will ultimately come back to haunt you sooner or later.