After you had sex, how long have you gone without being in a relationship?

vorbis

Just curious about this as I recently posted a thread about a friend of mine who I can never remember being in a relationship. Obviously for guys, some are single by choice and others ... not by choice

Myself, it was about 4 years, more by lack of choice on my part!

cson

Jesus, theres a lot of sex related threads appearing on AH of late. I'd have said PI would be the place for them but anyway.....

humbert

what qualifies as by choice. I'd love to meet a girl I liked and be in a relationship but I don't know such a girl, is that not by choice or is rejection required?

vorbis

well by choice means to be crude, if you had a desire to shag someone in between relationships you could get it!

Nevyn

Yeah but for certain types of sex and trust levels there has to be some relationship. I mean after 3 months of a relationship you have a better chance of tricking a guy into letting you have at them with a strap on then a one nighter or a string of a few nights.

the look of terror in their eyes when they see that getting tied to the bed this time is gonna be a lot different is priceless....They struggle so prettily...

Prenderb

You could interpret your question as being -
"How bad are you, exactly, in bed? How long before the rumours die down?"

Nevyn

lollers

NeMiSiS

I don't understand, are you asking.. once you get laid, do you take some sort of break from getting laid ? Or do you mean.. once you have broken up with someone how long is your averege.. get over them time ?
TK

Drift

Thaedydal wrote:

Yeah but for certain types of sex and trust levels there has to be some relationship. I mean after 3 months of a relationship you have a better chance of tricking a guy into letting you have at them with a strap on then a one nighter or a string of a few nights.

the look of terror in their eyes when they see that getting tied to the bed this time is gonna be a lot different is priceless....They struggle so prettily...

*NOTE TO SELF* Dump Thae after 2 months and 30 days!

Peyton Manning

Has it ever occured to you that some people only have sex with people they are in a relationship with?

Drift

As far as I can see he means since your first relationship involving sex whats the longest break you've had between relationships...... I think.

boneless

Drift wrote:

*NOTE TO SELF* Dump Thae after 2 months and 30 days!

Make sure February is not the ultimate month...:eek:


Hmmm... I am strangely excited by the thoughts of a 3 month relationship with Thae...

SimpleSam06

Thaedydal wrote:

Yeah but for certain types of sex and trust levels there has to be some relationship. I mean after 3 months of a relationship you have a better chance of tricking a guy into letting you have at them with a strap on then a one nighter or a string of a few nights.

the look of terror in their eyes when they see that getting tied to the bed this time is gonna be a lot different is priceless....They struggle so prettily...

If you were a man talking about women, you'd have the guards round your house about now. Sigh. God be with the days when a spot of anal rape was an equal opportunities, er, opportunity... :rolleyes:

Sleepy

Uhm, single for well over three years and I guess you could say it's by choice because I haven't met anyone in that time that I wouldn't be 'settling for' if I got into a relationship with them.

azezil

Varies from 1 week to 1 year...

AuntieAoife

I'm 6 years and counting. Just haven't met anyone I like enough to be in a relationship with, and am crazy busy so won't make a massive effort to shufty things around for someone I don;t think will be well worth it....

I'm a fussy cow...

rainbow kirby

Single for 2 years now, and no prospects on the horizon.

Marksie

Thaedydal wrote:

Yeah but for certain types of sex and trust levels there has to be some relationship. I mean after 3 months of a relationship you have a better chance of tricking a guy into letting you have at them with a strap on then a one nighter or a string of a few nights.

the look of terror in their eyes when they see that getting tied to the bed this time is gonna be a lot different is priceless....They struggle so prettily...

you will always find the one who will suprise you though

AngryBadger

Thaedydal wrote:

tricking a guy into letting you have at them with a strap on then a one nighter or a string of a few nights.

....dude.....

starlight07

More than a year by choice??? LIARS!!!

Civilian_Target

Liars?! I haven't been in a relationship in a year and I'm not desperate to get into one TBH, same as Sleepy

No relationship != No sex

I must go now, Thaed wants to tie me to the bed, I wonder what she's trying to hide behind her back...

The Gnome

rainbow kirby wrote:

Single for 2 years now, and no prospects on the horizon.

After finding your you're a girl, you've shattered my reality enough that you can be my sexweasel any day...

kittenkiller

I think it was about 2 or 3 weeks 5 and a half years ago.
It's been a tough life.

Dr. Seuss

NeMiSiS wrote:

I don't understand, are you asking.. once you get laid, do you take some sort of break from getting laid ? Or do you mean.. once you have broken up with someone how long is your averege.. get over them time ?
TK

I don't understand the question either. Dumb-ass OP, if you ask me.

"After you had sex, how long have you gone without being in a relationship?" - That doesn't even make sense.

vorbis

you should have paid more attention in english

After you had sex, - time before that is irrelevant

How long have you gone without being a relationship?
Whats so difficult about that? The question is about the longest time you stayed single for? And whether you chose to be single (could have a gf / bf but didn;t want to) or (usually in the case of guys) a long barren patch is followed by having a gf.

Dr. Seuss

vorbis wrote:

you should have paid more attention in english

After you had sex, - time before that is irrelevant

How long have you gone without being a relationship?
Whats so difficult about that? The question is about the longest time you stayed single for? And whether you chose to be single (could have a gf / bf but didn;t want to) or (usually in the case of guys) a long barren patch is followed by having a gf.

My English is perfect. It still doesn't make sense - what has "after you had sex" got to do with the question? Why doesn't he just ask "whats the longest you have been single for?"

DUH! He worded it like a tard.

Nevyn

You didn't post in rhyme
aren't you ment to do that all the time ?

Smellyirishman

Dr. Seuss wrote:

Why doesn't he just ask "whats the longest you have been single for?"

Because people would say "lol, the first 10 years of my life. lol"?

I agree though, the title sucks. Answer is 0 days.