First time you know whating

lunapark

Hey,
just wanted a bit of advice...I have being going out with this girl for two weeks now, we really like each other, heres the thing, she wants me to come over to her house next week, and i presume things are going to naturally sway towards a bit of the old sexy time...but to be honest i feel like theres an awfull lot of 'presure', i dunno, its just i have no idea how to approach this...do we go into bed, do we do it in light or what, bearing in mind that we will both be sober...
I just need someone to tell me do this, this and that...

any advice from people new to the whole sex scene would be great..

cheers

Skud

i think your over complicating this... Just take things slow, if you're not comfortable you can say it to your gf you know. It doesn't necessarily mean sex, but if you do just make sure it's what you want too.

I just need someone to tell me do this, this and that...

haha you should listen during sex ed... Seriously though, just be yourself and take things naturally. She might intiate things because it's her house or again you could just be openly honest with her and tell her how you feel etc.

Just be respectful and make sure you wear protection if it does happen.

Catari Jaguar

To get your confidence up it'd prob be best to let her take control and go on top first time, even on the couch or whatever. Better to be more spontaneous, like during a movie r something, then like "Ok, lets go upstairs now... *awkward*" Doing it in light is definitely better imo.

Chinafoot

First of all never presume anything. She's asked you over but that is no guarantee she wants to have sex with you. Don't go there expecting anything as you may be disappointed.

Secondly, just relax. Take the evening as it comes and don't have a definite plan of action in your head. Go there to spend some time with the girl you like and if things get heated just go with what feels right.

It's perfectly natural to be nervous for your first time (whether it's your first time ever or your first time with a new partner) but don't over-think things as you'll be placing way too much pressure on yourself.

Relax, have fun and see where the night takes you.

Mr. Presentable

Actually, and I hate myself for this, take no protection with you and, if things kick off sexually, tell her you didn't want to assume anything because you respect her so much. She'll either throw you out, or reward you greatly next time you get together.

Don't assume she's asking you over to do her. She may just want to talk