friends 21st

bolliwoodi

Ok im not sure if this is a PI or not but didnt think it would suit AH.

I have this mate from school- we were never pitucarly close until a summer 2 years ago when her BF of 6 years dumped her. That summer she pratically lived in my flat-Spent everyday together etc.She even started dating one of my best friends and quickly became one of our group(so to speak).

But At the end of the summer the BF asked her back and she jumped straight back into his arms and that was that. We hardly spoke anymore which i didnt really mind anyway cos i knew eventually she would take him bk and go bk to her life with him-I was half expecting it.

Met her out Paddys night this year and started talking again and texting etc.

Two weeks ago my best mate popped over for a cuppa and asked "Are you going to Stacys 21st" I hadnt heard nothing about it so i said i wasnt sure. In the last 2 weeks all my mates have gotten invites to her 21st except me.

The partys tonight and i was a bit pissed off at this stage cos i had gotten no invite and all my mates had. I text her this morning to be nice and wished her a happy bday. She replied with "Thanks honey are u coming tonight". i informed her i wasnt cos i hadnt gotten an invite and besides id already made plans(which i have). She said she had given "The lads" my invite as she hadnt seen me. I checked around all my group and discovered no one had been given my invite plus it turns out a few of my mates asked her last week why hadnt she invited me and she said "im not inviting her". So i informed her of this and her story changed- She said now she had not said that and she had given her bf the invite to give to my BF in work. But my BF said that hes been with her BF all week in work and that he never mentioned the invite or even the party for that matter.

Now i know this isint a major problem but i donno what to think.Her story has changed twice-If she just forgot its an honest mistake no need to lie about it. if i forgot to invite someone id tell them n apoligise. but i know my mates wouldnt lie about something like that.

Nordie

Sounds like she was just using you when she broke up with her fella and she's a two-faced bcith. I wouldn't believe a word she says and I doubt your own friends wouldn't lie to you. Forget her & her 21st and do your own thing.

bolliwoodi

Nordie wrote:

I doubt your own friends wouldn't lie to you.

huh?

carolinej

I'd forget about her if I was you. She's not worth it. I wouldn't like her as a friend if she's like that. The next time her bf dumps her I'd tell her to take and run and jump if she called

hermit

Forget about and don't bother with her anymore. She's obviously a using gimp. You don't need friends like that so have fun doing your other plans tonite and don't bother giving it another thought!

Nordie

bolliwoodi wrote:

huh?

Sorry, I doubt your own friends would lie to you.

bolliwoodi

Nordie wrote:

Sorry, I doubt your own friends would lie to you.

ok got a bit confused there lol:D

Zulu

Good riddance... I wouldn't waste another moment thinking about. It's her loss.

Kell

OP- I think the general jist of things so far is to just move on and ignore this tosser.

I'm free tonight if you happen to be at a loose end.

K-

bolliwoodi

Kell wrote:

OP- I think the general jist of things so far is to just move on and ignore this tosser.

I'm free tonight if you happen to be at a loose end.

K-

Kell

bolliwoodi wrote:

Somethings come up

K-

bolliwoodi

Kell wrote:

Somethings come up

K-

The_Hustler

I always count questions like "Are you coming tonight?" as invites. Best way to do it if you don't have plans.

jellie

sounds like one of them evil twisted girls that makes themselves feel better about something (whatever their issue is) by making other girls or "friends" feel bad but acting innocent like they didnt mean it - if i sound bitter, i know one of these girls, and she is quite evil...

to be honest, youre probably better off without her. the changing stories and the fact that neither story is backed up by anyone implies shes just making it up. she didnt invite you for whatever reason, and invited all your friends, so she knew eventually you would find out about the party. basically, shes a b***h.

dont waste any more time on her.

Sangre

If there is free drink go and use her like she used you, after tonight forget her.

davyjose

What they said plus, tell her what a bitch she is. It'll make you feel better.

jellie

davyjose wrote:

What they said plus, tell her what a bitch she is. It'll make you feel better.

nah i wouldnt give her the satisfaction of knowing shes gotten to you.

if you wanna go to the party go, and make sure you look fantastic and have a fantastic time

davyjose

sar84 wrote:

nah i wouldnt give her the satisfaction of knowing shes gotten to you.

if you wanna go to the party go, and make sure you look fantastic and have a fantastic time

I would - there's nothing better than the look on someones face when you tell them what a dirty, **** ****-ing, no-good, ****ing ****sucker, they are. Followed by a few home-truths told in a similar manner

At the party!!!!!