worried I'm a perv

LegacyUser

I am a female in my mid 20's. I am attracted to fit young men, but for some reason I can only have an orgasm when I fantasise about fat ugly men in their 60's.

I don't actually fancy fat ugly 60 year olds, but I dream about them and wake up from an orgasm. I have never had an orgasm without thinking about it.

I just don't know whats wrong with me, I want to be able to orgasm normally!

Zillah

Thats really quite strange.

What 60 year old men have you had in your life? Your dad, uncles, family friends, what?

DawnMc

The more you try to stop yourself from thinking about the old men, the more you'll do it. Allow yourself to think about them and chances are the 'thrill' will be gone

PeakOutput

loads of people have odd fantasies and i dont think your fantasy is the problem but the fact that you cant cum any other way.

i wouldnt worry too much about the fantasy but id recommend exploring other fetishes/fantasies in an attempt to find something more "normal"(lack of a better word) that gets you off and dont be shy about it if its legal give it a shot imo

i hope there are a few women like you around when i am 60 but thankfully im only 21 so its a while away

ELLIEJ

Like who for example - Ken Barlow? George Hook? Pavarotti???

Just trying to see where you are 'coming' from he he

sam34

ELLIEJ wrote:

Like who for example - Ken Barlow? George Hook? Pavarotti???

Just trying to see where you are 'coming' from he he

boom boom !!

LegacyUser

hmmmm george hook is strangely alluring

LegacyUser

I don't have any 60 year old men in my family at all! The dreams and fantasies involve blokes like Jeremy Beadle, Rolf Harris, Lou from neighbours, etc.

LegacyUser

I don't think it's strange at all.

TBH, I fantasise about being raped, or being a sex slave to dirty oul fat men, or a bunch of twenty-something sex mad lunatics.

Doesn't mean I'd ever want to be raped or forced to provide when I didn't feel like it.

It's just fantasy, it doesn't mean anything.
I certainly don't think I'm weird.

tbh

notstrange wrote:

I don't think it's strange at all.

TBH, I fantasise about being raped, or being a sex slave to dirty oul fat men, or a bunch of twenty-something sex mad lunatics.

Doesn't mean I'd ever want to be raped or forced to provide when I didn't feel like it.

It's just fantasy, it doesn't mean anything.
I certainly don't think I'm weird.

do ya feel conflicted about sex at all? Maybe deep down you think that sex is dirty and you shouldn't really be enjoying it - if you are being "raped" or a sex-slave, you don't really have a choice?

Tar.Aldarion

A lot of women fantasise about being raped, apparantly.


Anyway, OP, I don't really see your problem, you like some stuff, poeple like weirder.

LegacyUser

TBH:- no, I have no hang ups whatsoever with regards to sex.

I absolutely love it, & I'd imagine I've a higher sex drive than my bf.

I experience no guilt whatsoever.
In saying that, I'm not one who would enjoy one night stands, or casual sex.
It has to be with a loving partner, & the closeness it creates between us is wonderful.

So no, I'm afraid I just have a dirty mind, & it's those type of fantasies that get me off, I just wouldn't want to act them out.

Nevyn

Submissive desires of this nature are not that strange and well with in the range of the 'norm' of human sexuality.

tbh

NotStrange wrote:

TBH:- no, I have no hang ups whatsoever with regards to sex.

I absolutely love it, & I'd imagine I've a higher sex drive than my bf.

I experience no guilt whatsoever.
In saying that, I'm not one who would enjoy one night stands, or casual sex.
It has to be with a loving partner, & the closeness it creates between us is wonderful.

So no, I'm afraid I just have a dirty mind, & it's those type of fantasies that get me off, I just wouldn't want to act them out.

ah well, it was just a theory

BaZmO*

pervygirl wrote:

I am a female in my mid 20's. I am attracted to fit young men, but for some reason I can only have an orgasm when I fantasise about fat ugly men in their 60's.

I don't actually fancy fat ugly 60 year olds, but I dream about them and wake up from an orgasm. I have never had an orgasm without thinking about it.

I just don't know whats wrong with me, I want to be able to orgasm normally!

Hmmm... I wonder do I know you? A female friend of mine has the same fantasy so if you're not the same person at least someone else has the same fantasy as ya.

Owen

Well, go be with one, and the fantasy will probably come to an abrupt end. But as countless posters repeat in the Personal Interests Forum, there is no such thing as normal. Whatever gets you off, gets you off, and as long as it's not illegal, then be comfortable with yourself.

0ubliette

pervygirl wrote:

I don't have any 60 year old men in my family at all! The dreams and fantasies involve blokes like Jeremy Beadle, Rolf Harris, Lou from neighbours, etc.

best troll ever

Marksie

It is not perverted at all.

Well withing the bell curve of human fantasies the older man/woman scenario.

miles teg

I'd be worried if I wasn't a perv

Miss Fluff

miles teg wrote:

I'd be worried if I wasn't a perv

With you on that one.

OP, not like you're fantasizing about inanimate objects or TROLLs

miles teg

Miss Fluff wrote:

With you on that one.

OP, not like you're fantasizing about inanimate objects or TROLLs

what's wrong with inanimate objects???

Miss Fluff

miles teg wrote:

what's wrong with inanimate objects???

Erm, absolutely nothing actually, no idea why I wrote that, have had hours of fun with various types

miles teg

Miss Fluff wrote:

Erm, absolutely nothing actually, no idea why I wrote that, have had hours of fun with various types

that's better. You had me worried I was a perv for a minute there

jesus_thats_gre

0ubliette wrote:

best troll ever

Thinking the exact same thing myself..

ryanah

At last a woman that thinks the same way as me. Now, I am a 60 year old man, but I cant get off unless im thinking of a young 20 year old. Somehow the thought of sagging tits and a dropped ass dosent do it for me anymore.

Time Magazine

Rolf Harris does it for me too tbh.

Nevyn

0ubliette,
jesus_thats_gre,
Ibid

unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

0ubliette

Thaedydal wrote:

0ubliette,
jesus_thats_gre,
Ibid

unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal

No offence Thaydybal, but this is the most blatant troll of a thread ive seen on this forum, giving warnings to people for pointing that out instead of just locking it or banning the OP smacks of shooting the messenger to me. For gods sake, she gets turned on by rolf harris and jeremy beadle??

Nevyn

0ubliette banned for off topic posting and question the moderation of the forum with in the forum.

Clearly mr harris and mr beadles wifes find the attractive enough, so it is a matter of taste and I will not
but up with any more off topic posting.

txt_mess

Have to agree with the stream of thoughts already going on that you should live and let live. What your thinking in your head is your business unless you feel your other half will get turned on by it to otherwise I'd keep it to myself.

If you do think its affecting you in a way you don't like you can visit a psychologist who can help you work out where this fetish comes from and it may help you come to terms with it a bit better.

Personally I'd say go with whatever does it for you.

The_Conductor

I don't see what the problem is- as long as you don't act on it.....
Lots of people have fantasies- doesn't mean we have hot and steamy sessions in the sauna in Jackie Skelly's before work in the morning though..... Lots of 60's something men probably have reciprocal fantasies to yours..... don't act on it though.....

LegacyUser

This thread is not a troll. It is a serious problem for me. I just want to be able to get that turned on by thinking about normal men that I actually fancy. I don't even fancy the fat old blokes!

ELLIEJ

pervygirl wrote:

This thread is not a troll. It is a serious problem for me. I just want to be able to get that turned on by thinking about normal men that I actually fancy. I don't even fancy the fat old blokes!

Whaaaateveh!!!! I see you sticking your hairy little head out from under the bridge......

I'd say you are a 16 year old boy. In case you are not - Sinbad is back in Corrie- you will remember him as the window cleaner in Brookside - small, rotund, and about 50 odd - just your kind of man!

PeakOutput

ELLIEJ wrote:

Whaaaateveh!!!! I see you sticking your hairy little head out from under the bridge......

I'd say you are a 16 year old boy. In case you are not - Sinbad is back in Corrie- you will remember him as the window cleaner in Brookside - small, rotund, and about 50 odd - just your kind of man!

*in before the ban*

op as i said cruise the net you wont have any trouble finding other things to fantasise about from even wierder than yours already to relatively normal stuff.........im sure this is not the only possible thing in the world the turns you on you have just lashed onto i coz it is unusual.....and "dirty"....there are loads of other "dirty" things that are slightly less unusual that maybe you can work with instead

r3nu4l

OP, there is nothing abnormal about your fantasy. It has nothing to do with any reverse oedipal themes.

Many young women enjoy the thought of being 'used' by older, fat, ugly men. It is a different take on submissiveness, that's all. Hey, if it gives you an orgasm then enjoy it.

As many others have already said, fantasy, is exactly that, a fantasy, nothing more. I have known two women who fantasise about forced beastiality and really gotten off on it but I know if they were given the chance in real life they would run a mile.

The thing about submissive (or any) fantasy is that you can control the level to which you are 'controlled' in that scenario and it is safe. It doesn't make you perverted, it makes you creative in mind and spirit...that's a good thing!

Nevyn

ELLIEJ banned for off topic and unhelpful postings.

Darragh29

pervygirl wrote:

I don't have any 60 year old men in my family at all! The dreams and fantasies involve blokes like Jeremy Beadle, Rolf Harris, Lou from neighbours, etc.

Haha, as Jeremy Beadle says, "now take a look... At this!"...

Nevyn

Darragh29, unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
Have a nice day.
Thaedydal