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  • 24-04-2007 7:43pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok here is my problem, I know when girls are interested in me but I just cant force myself to go over to them. I see some of my mates going with a different girl every night.

    But the thing is that i am able to talk to girls who I know have boyfriend or im not interested in. Which is very frustrating and I want to get experience while im still young.

    Like this is what would happen:
    1. I see a girl looking at me smiling/keep catching her looking at me and this would go on for the hole night and I wouldnt act on this because im to afraid to act on them.
    2. The girl would brake the ice as such but then when things start going somewhere I will kinda distance myself or start having second thoughts.
    3. Or like what happened last night get my ass grabbed then I would turn round and there 3 different groups of girls and I would have no idea who did it. This has happened before but I didnt turn around because I know that im not interested in the girl.


    Any advice?


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭rediguana


    Back when the century was young and I was single, getting women was always supreme in my thoughts. I had no idea how to get girls back to my place, um, I mean speak to them. I would just go out and drink lots and a sizable proportion of the time I would wake up next to a girl, even if she was only a female genetically speaking. Anyway, I rarely had any idea what had enticed them back to South Terace Court in Cork City. Talk to loads of girls on a night out and see what sticks. It's largely a numbers game.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 147 ✭✭Cancer-chick


    having lived in south terrace id say it was the air from 'de brewery' wafting over !! :)

    OP as a woman.. No bulls*** chat up lines.. friends of friends if u v shy and basically if u smiley it always helps !

    Relax .. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5 betty


    Alright talkin from a female perseptive any time i grab a guys ass on nite out im fairly pissed & even when I do this its just for the crack..I mean come on if sober and if I saw a guy I really fancied the last thing I would do is grab his ass even if it was the thing I wanted to do at the time..then again if your female and after a few drinks in this country ya prob end up doin so..ok aside of all of this think I'm off to think about how I behave on a nite out:) Just be yourself out cause if ya get lucky and kinda maybe want to see that person again don't go all jekll & hyde ..think we all end up doing that though now n then..blame the drink grand but sure you just end up where you started because of it..complicated over all isn't it throw in a few bevies and tis pure madness:)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 245 ✭✭~nop~


    Ignore the ass grabbing.

    And possibly have a few drinks?

    Also get the girls with the boyfriends etc who you can talk to to introduce you to their friends, would probably put you at ease more and mean that the girl youre being introduced to doesn't think you're a complete randomer etc.


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