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Mixed signals ? or just not intrested

  • 18-04-2007 09:59PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi All

    Wondering if you can give me some advice..

    Ok have been doing some online dating and have been messaging a girl for a while on the site.
    We got on well and swapped numbers etc then started texting alot (I know txt is for kids etc ..) but it was going well I thought.

    Eventually we met up and rather than going for a meal etc we met up and went on a nice long walk on the beach.
    It went well , she is really nice, great fun, good looking, and I had a good time.
    She kissed (just kiss on the cheek) me just before we parted as she had to head off as she had to help with a granparent who was on their own.
    We live about an hour apart , although she is from a town not far from me.
    And she said we would meet up again (but no date given)
    emailed each other in work after that and got along fine,

    I was a bit keen to meet up maybe a week or two later, but she does have commitments like christenings and things like that so thats fine. I have things plans too which are going to prevent me meeting up during certain weekends coming up and she knows this.
    But i've been asking her to get an idea of when we might meet up so I can plan it etc. but she has avoided the question so far just saying it would be nice to meet up again.
    Just lately she hasnt replied to my email or text in a day or too, so im wondering if she maybe now isnt intrested or possibly has another guy on the go aswell ??
    or am i being just paraniod :)

    tks


Comments

  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'you're being paranoid and over-analysing
    it went well for you and she wants to meet again.
    if you're awaiting a reply to a clear question, the ball is in her court.

    don't come across too needy. if she doesnt get back to you, move on.

    she's probably just busy or hasnt checked her email / lost her phone/ no credit'


  • #3
    BrandonBlock
    Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭BrandonBlock


    I think ya should chill out and relax a little, look at it from her perspective;

    If she has decided to move on, or another guy is on the scene, the last thing she will want is you trying to contact her to meet up because she'll feel sorry for you.

    On the other hand, if she is just out of credit/laptops broke/etc, then again shes not gonna want you to keep txting/emailing her because she cant reply.

    So just relax, these things tend to work themselves out anyway.

    Best of luck m8 :)


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