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Where do i stand??

  • 16-04-2007 8:59am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    hey guys!

    ok first off im really sorry if this come's off as a bit of a rant but i just wanna get some other people's advice on the situation and i seem to always come here for the advice of my fellow board'ers :) so here it goes......

    Been seen this amazing girl for the past 2 months, we went tru a bit of a rough patch but ever since then everything has been going great! we both agreed that since we sorted out where we "stood" with eachother that things seem to be alot better. Basically we were meeting eachother and i heard that she wasnt looking for a relationship, BUT i started to get really strong feelings for her, Told her that i kinda was looking for something and was hoping that it was going to "go somewhere with me and her" she agreed with me and DOES want it to go somewhere!. i jumped with joy on this!! now the only thing is she is doin exams at the moment and i understand COMPLETLY that it will be very hard for her to fit in all her study and other things whilst she is preparing for her exams, (esp. hard for her to fit in a B/F ) so.......(sorry for rant!) we both agreed that between now and then we werent gonna meet any other people but not officially "go out" with each other until after her exams and see what will happen after her exams. To be honest i think there is a very good chance of us ending up together and all my friends think this aswell, (by d way im 21 - she's 18).

    Has anyone else been in a situation like this?

    How did it turn out for you?

    What do u think of my situation?

    Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and thanks for the reply's :)


Comments

  • #2
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    wheredoistand? wrote:
    we both agreed that between now and then we werent gonna meet any other people but not officially "go out" with each other until after her exams

    Um- I dont understand why you dont know where you stand. You've spelt it out loud and clear above.

    Why didnt you say- "I would like things to be happening now, because although I am saying I am cool with things, I am not but I dont want to hassle her because she has exams".

    Then at least you would have been honest. I still dont understand why you're confused though.

    K-


  • #3
    Squall
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,345 ✭✭✭Squall


    Im in a somewhat similar situation at the minute. Being "scoring" (hate that saying) with a girl for awhile... she isnt looking for anything serious as you say and im willing to respect that... I care about her alot and im willing to give it a bit of time.

    Were both coming into exams now and need to concentrate on those. At the end of the day they are more important (at the moment).Youve agreed to pick up where you left off after your exams... you should do just that.

    If you push her you'll only damage your relationship. I saw my girl earlier today... shes been in since 8:30 and will be studying till 10 tonight... she definately doesnt need me pressuring her to do things. I doubt your girl would appreciate it either. Yes it will be hard but just suck it up give her some space and guaranteed* in a few weeks shell appreciate you more for it.

    *Not an actual guarantee of relationship success. Terms and conditions apply :)


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