Do many guys really do this...?

LegacyUser

Last week, I was having sex with my boyfriend and he didn't come, for the first time ever with me (we were both fairly tired+ we were trying something different that didn't really work out well). I felt really bad because of this. I've never had an orgasm during penetrative sex+ he does make me come most of the time through other ways (so I sort of know how he feels now, when I don't come). However, he told me the reason he didn't come that night was because he mastrabated before he came over, so that he would last longer. (I did tell him, that I didn't mind at all how long he lasted for etc... ). He said guys call it 'spreading the easy ones first'. I've never heard of this. I'd like to hear guys opinions about this... do many of ye do it etc+ would you really feel like ye had to???

Skellington

Hi,
I've done it a few times myself, the first time I slept with a few partners. First impressions are everything;).
Maybe he just thought you might have an orgasm from penetration if he could last a little longer. Don't feel bad about it, you both still had a good time, yeah?

Sinfonia

Skellington wrote:

Hi,
I've done it a few times myself, the first time I slept with a few partners. First impressions are everything;).
Maybe he just thought you might have an orgasm from penetration if he could last a little longer. Don't feel bad about it, you both still had a good time, yeah?

Case closed, really



Peter Griffin: While I'm at it give me all these copies of "Marie Claire." Ya know in case I wanna rub out that easy one before I get Lois into bed tonight.

Talliesin

Yep. Indeed some men even advise other men to do so here.

Everyday.

Alter-Ego

I rarely go in with a loaded gun myself.

Wishbone Ash

Skellington wrote:

the first time I slept with a few partners

All together?

OP - don't worry about it. His intentions were good and I'm sure he didn't expect it to 'backfire'.

LegacyUser

I always found thinking about all the differant versions of wheelborrows one can get does the trick for me re: going the distance...or thinking of a route through the city and naming all the streets en-route.

Forget about thinking about TDs...like Big Mary...cause in the height of things Liz McManus becomes strangly attractive:eek:

empirix

No this is a fairly recent trend, kicked off a few years ago when the film "Something about mary" came out;)

Wishbone Ash

kaiser1 wrote:

thinking of a route through the city and naming all the streets en-route.

A friend of mine thinks about the process of changing the engine in a tractor!

holland501

9 or 12 times tables

Steoob

i used to do it before i would have sex with my girlfriend but i found myself getting extremely drained sexually by the end of the night so now i dont do it any more...

and ive never really had a problem regarding duration and i never have to think about my granny licking mayonase off of a sweaty hairy fat man armpit so i guess im just lucky that way

also when im drunk i find it pretty hard to finish.. but im sure thats something that everyone has experienced at one point

melekalikimaka

it explains a hell of alot for me... i think i do it too much

Wishbone Ash

Steoob wrote:

i never have to think about my granny licking mayonase off of a sweaty hairy fat man armpit

You've been watching too much of 'The Word'.

Steoob

Wishbone Ash wrote:

You've been watching too much of 'The Word'.

the word? do tell...

PeakOutput

yep i do too but i dont really have a problem cumming later though

guys think alot about how long they do or dont last and this is a simple solution

Wishbone Ash

Steoob wrote:

the word? do tell...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Word_%28TV_series%29

macshadow

I knew of this auld one who used to wear sandals all year round,her nails were
about two inches long with tons of black stuff caught underneath.
so i'd just picture her feet when doin the biz.

Jesus Wept

macshadow wrote:

I knew of this auld one who used to wear sandals all year round,her nails were
about two inches long with tons of black stuff caught underneath.
so i'd just picture her feet when doin the biz.

surely doing the biz isn't much fun with that image in your head

macshadow

if you want to last a long time.it's many years since i needed something like that.lol the image still haunts me.:eek:

Sinfonia

empirix wrote:

No this is a fairly recent trend, kicked off a few years ago when the film "Something about mary" came out;)

as recent as nine years ago?:D

stovelid

Wishbone Ash wrote:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Word_%28TV_series%29

Showing your age there? As in...

<nasal_macunian_whine> We've got some top fookin bands on the Word tonight! </nasal_macunian_whine>

rediguana

Well, I never heard that phrase but, yes, I think many men do this. It's a dilemma though - if I'm going to have sex, I'd like to be as horny as possible. A pre-match five-aside takes the fun out of it for me. A couple of drinks instead can have a mild anaesthetic effect and achieve a similar result.

Anyway, OP, don't worry, it's normal and he was doing it for you, maybe even thinking about you when he was doing it (!).

LegacyUser

How long does the average man last im fairly crap myself

PeakOutput

seriously who cares how long you last??? the simple solution is to practice getting it up again quickly not concentrating so much on not cumming that your not having fun anymore

Icequeen

Unreg1983 wrote:

How long does the average man last im fairly crap myself

5 hours for "round one" and then we'll accept 3 hours for each subsequent round with a 15 minutes tea break between each one...because we're not unreasonable like

melekalikimaka

Unreg1983 wrote:

How long does the average man last im fairly crap myself

man the worst it when you just CAN'T, I'd rather 10 minutes than that, the awful cramps the next day....shudders, beer does that to me, that and girls whom are of negotiable beauty