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Advice on a girl

  • 13-04-2007 3:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Right so theres a girl I know from college a while now and were what you'd call friends despite not seeing each other that often. Whenever she was around at first I'd clam up and stuff cause I had a crush on her. But over time that went and we became better friends.

    A while ago when we were at a college party we met up that night, kinda tipsy and got together. While I was walking her home she said she had an idea I had a crush on her but was never sure. We met up once or twice after that and that was fine but it was the time of exams and texts werent being replied to etc so me being the way I am took a defeatist attitude looking back on it and stopped texting. Now I really regret it. I feel I missed an opportunity for something good. I've barely seen her since to talk about it due to college projects and different timetables and all but does anyone have any advice on what I should do. Should I just let it go?


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'Go for it! send her a txt asking to meet up, don't let ur feelings out straight away, just become friends again, and see where u can go from there'


  • #3
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,217 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Just ring her. Hey if you're a bit nervous about it text her, but do something FFS. She might be wondering where it all went wrong too. If not at least you'll get an answer. Why the hell would you put yourself through hardship for no reason?

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #4
    Tak3n
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 290 ✭✭Tak3n


    Be confident about yourself...
    Remember shes just a chick and theres tons and tons of them.
    If you do wanna get with her just call her up... think of something spontaneous and ask her if she wants to have the best night of her life doing it.. (girls love excitement).

    If u havn't got the balls for any of that just get her drunk.


  • #5
    syberspud
    Closed Accounts Posts: 54 ✭✭syberspud


    While I was walking her home she said she had an idea I had a crush on her but was never sure.

    Wasn't that the perfect time to make a move?!!:eek: I know it's not helpful now...but as Wibbs said, do something ffs! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Good luck.


  • #6
    stovelid
    Closed Accounts Posts: 27,252 ✭✭✭✭stovelid


    Ring her and suggest meeting up. You probably can't be any more miserable than you are now anyway. Best case scenario, she agrees. Worst case, at least you know where you stand. Good luck!


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  • #7
    jdman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40 ✭jdman


    Yea do something about it at least u'll know what the story is then...


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