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Dry Spell with Boyfriend

  • 03-04-2007 7:22am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Me and my boyfriend are going through a bit of a dry spell. We love each other and he certainly wants more sex but I've just gone off the whole thing. I feel like it's a chore sometimes. Will he leave me if I don't get it together? Or will that be compromising myself and end up leaving me resentful? What do I do? help


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  • #2
    frizzefreckles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 152 ✭✭frizzefreckles


    Everyone goes through this. I hit a bit of a dry patch a few months ago. If you are on the pill it's a common side affect to it. My boyfriend noticed that I wasn't enjoying sex as much as normal and he mentioned it to me, I told him how I'd been feeling and he backed off, gave me some space and slowly things got back to normal. He was also extremely attentive when we did start having sex again which helped hugely. I think the best thing for you to do is sit down and talk to him and explain how you are feeling.


  • #3
    Cancer-chick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 147 ✭✭Cancer-chick


    Exactly what freckles said ! !

    We have all been there.. it could be work stressing you out or the type of pill .. when it happened to us i talked to my guy and asked him could we just have a night with the duvet in fromt of the fire cuddlling .. sometimes that is all it takes you know.. Def talk to your BF .. it will be fine


  • #4
    Saruman
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,389 ✭✭✭✭Saruman


    Nothing to worry about... hell im a guy and i cant be arsed most of the time. Then again im married so it always goes.


  • #5
    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,945 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    What may cause damage to the relationship is not communicating how you feel to your boyfriend.
    If you dont tell him that the lack of interest you are experiencing is not to do with him he may be hurt or assume that you have lost interest.
    Its best to talk to him about it.


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