possibly pregnant

LegacyUser

Ok so here is the situation. I've been goiung out with my girlfriend about a year and a half now. Things are going great. Last Sunday was the first time either of us ever had sex. Her period was due yesterday(thursday) but it hasn't come yet. Now it has been late before 2-3 days or so. But I am just thinking is this too much of a co-incidenece. We used condoms and I think we used them ok. I put it on. Now it only covered the top half of my penis and before I put it in there was a lot of white semeny like fluid in the condom. As it was only half on my penis the top of the condom stayed outside her vagina. I went to the toilet before hand a few times during the day so I don't think the white fluid contained any semen. Or could it have. I dont think anything got out of the condom but ah I wish I knew. What do you guys think. Is it very likely?

neuro-praxis

Whenever you have sex, there is a risk of pregnancy, but don't panic. If her periods have been irregular before it may simply be that - and don't forget that worrying and stress can delay a period too.

However it doesn't sound like you know how to use a condom. You will need to begin practising - doing it together can even be an intimate experience. The condom must always rolled down right to the base of your penis, otherwise fluid may leak or the condom may fall off.

I would also recommend that your girlfriend go on the pill.

I really hope this works out okay for you. Your girlfriend can take a home pregnancy test to find out if anything is going on. Good luck, and let us know the result.

Beruthiel

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

.We used condoms and I think we used them ok. I put it on.

Condoms are good, but if you do not want to get pregnant, then don't have sex again until your g/f has gotten herself on the pill.

dodgyme

what age are you? - just wondering?

AnonoBoy

You need to learn how to use a condom properly. Roll it all the way down, squeeze the top to make sure there's no air trapped there and put it on before your penis goes anywhere near your girlfriend's genitals.

Practise doing it yoruself. It'll ease your mind and allow you to enjoy yourself.

lady_j

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

Her period was due yesterday(thursday) but it hasn't come yet. QUOTE]

Thats pretty normal is she's not on the pill
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zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

As it was only half on my penis the top of the condom stayed outside her vagina.?

Ok Im not completely sure I understand what you mean here, but it doesnt sound like it was on properly, I suggest looking at the instructions and make sure you are putting it on .

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

I went to the toilet before hand a few times during the day so I don't think the white fluid contained any semen. ?

Do u mind me asking what age you are, from what you described you seem a bit immature when it comes to sex.

LegacyUser

I'm eighteen. I don't think I will be having sex with her again any time soon! I forgot to mention in the original post that I didn't actually ejaculate!

Beruthiel

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

forgot to mention in the original post that I didn't actually ejaculate!

That doesn't matter, pre-cum has enough in it to do the damage.

For your own good, educate yourself on all things sexual before practicing again.

LegacyUser

'I guess I'll just have to hope for the best. She had a big fight with her parents yesterday morning so hopefully thats whats delaying her!'

Stargal

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

I don't think I will be having sex with her again any time soon!

I know you're worried right now but if everything works out ok and she isn't pregnant, then there's no reason why you shouldn't have sex with her again. It'd be silly to miss out on something so great just because of one scare.

Two things you should do though: Like descry and neuro-praxis said, read the instructions that came with the condoms, cos it really doesn't sound like you used it properly. Also see about using another method of protection (perhaps your girlfriend could go on the pill?) so that you're more protected.

Poppy84

I would most definitly recommend your gf to go on the pill, if you are going to continue to have a sexual relationship it is in both your interests. also it will make her periods regular so it has its advantages for her too.

However she must be responsible and take the pill every day. If she is forgetful or this doesnt suit there are other methods of contraception available to girls I would strongly recomend she go discuss her option with her doctor as they will be able to advise her best.

I know it was only your first time having sex but do not leave it go for her to go on the pill or some form of contraception.

Periods are irregular so try not worry too much, we all learn from experience so learn the lesson here

Victor

zcxcxzzxccxz wrote:

Now it only covered the top half of my penis and before I put it in

I'm surious about this, the condom should come down to the base of your penis.

there was a lot of white semeny like fluid in the condom.

Do you mean you had semen or pre-ejaculate in the condom or did the condom have an spermicide?

LegacyUser

no it was "pre cum" in the condom. Anyway. I think i am in the clear now. She told me this evening she was having small cramps which usually smeans her period is probably on its way. Fingers crossed.

LegacyUser

'It came today! So this thread is now useless!'

neuro-praxis

Great! You've ha da scare but now you can learn from it and go forward. Congratulations!

Nevyn

well I am happy that you are not facing an unplanned pregnany zxccxzzxccxz
but it seem that it is time you sat and had a talk with your gf and find out what your options are as a couple in reguards to contraception.
The pill is not an option for every woman.


http://www.ifpa.ie/contraception/index.html
http://www.thinkcontraception.ie/comfortable-with-condoms/
http://www.thinkcontraception.ie/whats-right-for-you/female.asp

xebec

zxccxzzxccxz wrote:

'It came today! So this thread is now useless!'

Eh, it's not useless! Make sure you learn from the situation and from all the advice that was given here. These situations do happen, but there are steps that can be taken to make them less frequent!