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Talking to girls

  • 18-03-2007 4:42pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8


    I have no problem talking to girls but I cant bring myself to ask a girl out.Every time I get close to it I just think im gonna mess up or make a fool of myself.I was just wondering how everyone else does it and lines guys use on girls.thanks for taking time to read this.


Comments

  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 16,698 Mod ✭✭✭✭Silverfish


    One piece of advice - don't use lines.


    Just ask if they want to go get a coffee / go see a film sometime. It's fairly hard to get up the guts to ask and it never gets any easier, but you have to look at the end result.

    Do what I do, blurt the words out then sit there with a combination of these faces :( :eek: :o until they answer.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,917 ✭✭✭B00MSTICK


    Just go for it, if you know her well enough im sure shes left you some hints, although this isnt true for everyone. Worse case scenario shes says something like "OMG are you joking me, me go out with you? pfft" but I havent met/seen anyone do this before, ever. Like Silverfish said the end result is usually worth the risk.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,024 ✭✭✭✭Baggly


    It does get easier. What ive always done is talk to them about stuff until they are comfortable talking to you. that way they might figure sure why not.

    Silverfish, i cant imagine that being true of you regarding being nervous


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,854 ✭✭✭Sinfonia


    biro15 wrote:
    Every time I get close to it I just think im gonna mess up or make a fool of myself

    Even if you do, so what? You only live once, and they might say yes.
    And when they do, you'll know it was worth the risk then anyway.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8 biro15


    thanks for da help must try it soon


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