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how do I convince her?

  • 14-03-2007 9:29am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok there's this girl that I've secretly been in love with since the time I was at school, it's been two years now and I'm still as besotted as I was then. I never really knew that much about her just knew I wanted to be with her.
    I work in a shop in the same town where she works and often saw her throughout the summer months as she often came in and we exchanged a few words. when she went back to college I rarely saw her, then just a while ago I had my chance with her she was out in the pub with her friends so I plucked up the courage and talked to her.
    She was everything I imagined her to be sweet, funny and nice, I got her number and went out the next week, then kissed at the end of the night and went home quite pleased with myself. I text her the next and I don't get reply till the following day saying that she doesn't want anything write now cause she wants to get back together with her ex even though she doesn't think herself it'll happen but she still loves him even if they aren't together.

    SO I'm wondering should I just let her go or try and convince her she should be with me rather then pining after him? and how would I go about it?


Comments

  • #2
    Heyes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,203 ✭✭✭Heyes


    To be honest there s nothing you can really do, she still loves her ex, so even if you did end up with her now, there would be a sense of a rebound relationship given the fact that she is not over her ex.

    The best thing you can do is let her be, dont change how you would treat her maybe you could become good friends and somewhere down the line something more may or maynot happen.

    But for now you need to let her go, for her sake and for yours.


  • #3
    frizzefreckles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 152 ✭✭frizzefreckles


    You should let the girl go, she's told you that she wants to get back with her ex.
    If you did managae to convince her to stay with you how would feel knowing that she had wanted some one else. Also by trying to get her to stay with you might only push her away and then you lose a friend. If things don't work out with her ex she might still come back to you.
    In the mean time try and move on.


  • #4
    Kinetic^
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,249 ✭✭✭✭Kinetic^


    Jedi mind trick FTW!!!!

    Seriously though, let it be....tis in the past.


  • #5
    louisecm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 289 ✭✭louisecm


    This is going to sounds harsh, and I'm sorry for that, but I don't want you to be wasting time either.

    She's not interested. If she was, she would be with you.

    Don't waste time with her, find the girl that thinks you're her lobster! :)


  • #6
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    UnTristed wrote:
    I text her the next and I don't get reply till the following day saying that she doesn't want anything write now cause she wants to get back together with her ex even though she doesn't think herself it'll happen but she still loves him even if they aren't together.

    That's her way of letting you down gently.
    Save yourself any future heart ache and forget about her.


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