Not Sure

LegacyUser

Not sure if this should be here but,

My new girlfriend is really hot but i just cant stay hard enough for sex. she is more expieranced than me but how do i get over this problem

Kell

Unregst11235 wrote:

how do i get over this problem

Encourage her to make sure you are ready for action before going for it. Simple. Dont be afraid to tell her to do the things that turn you on and ask that she does it.

K-

Ruu_Old

Yep, get her to help you out. I'm sure you can have lots of fun with that.

LegacyUser

'I have the same problem except its my boyfriend who it happens to. we have been working on making it better but its still getting in the way '

Talliesin

There's only a handful of sexual acts that require a hard penis.

Most of the others tend to make penises get hard. Do them.

LegacyUser

'Ah you see thats the second problem with my boyfriend, if i do one of the making hard acts he comes almost instantly so we can never get to the sex stage. its getting me down not because im horny but cause i want to be close to him. hes been really good about it even though i know he feels really bad, he will talk about it etc. but still not much much progress has been made '

onemanband

To Nope. try using the Durex Performa condoms. There is a cream in the top that delays ejaculation. You can use one of them for a while and even take it off. The cream will still have an effect.

Talliesin

nope wrote:

'Ah you see thats the second problem with my boyfriend, if i do one of the making hard acts he comes almost instantly so we can never get to the sex stage.

And he then loses all feeling in the rest of his body?

This stuff is a lot more likely to get sorted out if he gets on with having sex and doesn't worry too much about intercourse (FFS, what do you people think Lesbians do, sit around waiting for one of them to grow a penis?).

Wibbs

Unregst11235 wrote:

Not sure if this should be here but,

My new girlfriend is really hot but i just cant stay hard enough for sex. she is more expieranced than me but how do i get over this problem

First off, don't sweat it, it's happened to a lot of blokes before you including me. It's mostly down to nerves. try to relax. Hard I know, if you'll pardon the pun. Secondly it'll pass.

nope wrote:

'Ah you see thats the second problem with my boyfriend, if i do one of the making hard acts he comes almost instantly so we can never get to the sex stage. its getting me down not because im horny but cause i want to be close to him. hes been really good about it even though i know he feels really bad, he will talk about it etc. but still not much much progress has been made

Give it time. If nothing else it shows he's very aroused by you, though it's frustrating for you. As Talliesin says there's other stuff you can do. Even if he gets to the end before you. Try not to make too big an issue of it and when he relaxes you should be ok.

Talliesin wrote:

FFS, what do you people think Lesbians do, sit around waiting for one of them to grow a penis?

Truer words not often written. Straight men could learn a hell of a lot from their lesbian brethren.