Dance

In IRL

How do you dance with 2 girls at once?

I was just wondering because I was out tonight. Approached these two girls on the dancefloor by myself. Both of them were smiling at me. Didn't know who to pick or what to do!:eek:

biko

Choose one.

Black Swan

Ditto.

LegacyUser

Looks like your indecision cost you.

In IRL

Is there no way to dance with both of them?

It's a lose-lose for me. Cos if i pick one the other will feel rejected, and I have a chance of getting blown out from the girl I pick cos the other one might have liked me better.

What' s up with girls giving each other smiles to each other when I get near them anyways? But they won't really make direct eye contact with me ? They don't mind me dancing around them tho. Is it playing hard to get/ not liking me enuf/ whats the next step for me. Like I don't want to hang around them too much if it's just them wanting me there to stroke their ego.

loismustdie

you'l look like a wannabe player/boyband member trying to dance with them both. what did you do
???

Faith

Just kind of dance in a triangle. You won't be grinding up against either of them, but you'll still be dancing with the two of them.

Like:

Girl 1 ......Girl 2
...... You

You face forward, and they should both turn towards you. Alternate eye contact with both of them.

In IRL

loismustdie wrote:

you'l look like a wannabe player/boyband member trying to dance with them both. what did you do
???

i did what faith sed. they were facing each other so i came from side and danced with them in triangle.

both looked, smiled at each other, didnt leave to go to another part of dnacefloor or anything. but as i tried to make eyecontact with both to see who likes me better, they didnt givme eye contact again. so i got bored and left.

also one of the girls started texting in the middle of the dancefloor :eek: was that a sign to move into the other girl? or maybe she was texting to the friend about me? :rolleyes: ?

In IRL

Faith wrote:

Just kind of dance in a triangle. You won't be grinding up against either of them, but you'll still be dancing with the two of them.

Like:

Girl 1 ......Girl 2
...... You

You face forward, and they should both turn towards you. Alternate eye contact with both of them.

wont make eye contact tho. how long to wait and dance with them before assuming they r not intrsted?

+ where do i go from the triangle. usually the girl whos more interested makes some sort of a move for example grind back to me. but didnthappen. do i go just try grab her?

Rb

Go for the better looking of the two, obviously.

Anti

rb_ie wrote:

Go for the better looking of the two, obviously.

Id say go for the one that looks the easiest;)

Rb

Anti wrote:

Id say go for the one that looks the easiest;)

Well, that certainly works too

D-Generate

And thats why wingmen exist!

In IRL

haha

but seriously, can anyone give me a proper answer to my questions? :rolleyes:

i sometimes experience the friend of who im going for draggin her away from me.

read my posts above and please answer my questrions

Faith

Really, do you want step by step instructions of how to behave in a club situation? Use your common sense, ffs! It's not like anyone is taught how to behave in situations like yours, they just learn by trial and error. How old are you, btw?

both looked, smiled at each other, didnt leave to go to another part of dnacefloor or anything. but as i tried to make eyecontact with both to see who likes me better, they didnt givme eye contact again. so i got bored and left.

also one of the girls started texting in the middle of the dancefloor was that a sign to move into the other girl? or maybe she was texting to the friend about me? ?

Maybe they were smirking at each other, soundlessly communicating "Haha, how can he think he's in with a chance with us??". Maybe they were having a silent argument about who'd get you. Who knows! If they didn't make eye contact again, you can safely assume they're not interested. The girl who took out her phone probably did it to get you to go away, or else she was rude and/or bored. At that point though, it should have been clear that they weren't interested.

What' s up with girls giving each other smiles to each other when I get near them anyways? But they won't really make direct eye contact with me ? They don't mind me dancing around them tho. Is it playing hard to get/ not liking me enuf/ whats the next step for me. Like I don't want to hang around them too much if it's just them wanting me there to stroke their ego.

Maybe they were just friendly. Maybe they caught you staring at them, and just politely smiled back. Girls aren't like men, they often go to clubs just to have a good time, not to get hit on.

i sometimes experience the friend of who im going for draggin her away from me.

That means the friend doesn't approve of you, and doesn't think you're the right guy for her friend.

Rb

Faith wrote:

Really, do you want step by step instructions of how to behave in a club situation? Use your common sense, ffs! It's not like anyone is taught how to behave in situations like yours, they just learn by trial and error. How old are you, btw?



Maybe they were smirking at each other, soundlessly communicating "Haha, how can he think he's in with a chance with us??". Maybe they were having a silent argument about who'd get you. Who knows! If they didn't make eye contact again, you can safely assume they're not interested. The girl who took out her phone probably did it to get you to go away, or else she was rude and/or bored. At that point though, it should have been clear that they weren't interested.



Maybe they were just friendly. Maybe they caught you staring at them, and just politely smiled back. Girls aren't like men, they often go to clubs just to have a good time, not to get hit on.



That means the friend doesn't approve of you, and doesn't think you're the right guy for her friend.

I agree, Faith. A bit of common sense goes a long way in these situations.

To be honest, and I'll put it as nicely as I can, it really sounds as though neither were interested in you and/or they wanted you to go away.
Don't try and approach two women at the same time in a club, do you even realise how you come across in their eyes when they see you at that? Seriously, one guy approaching two girls, trying to get both to dance with him and then thinking he can pick whichever he wants...its a tad ridiculous tbh. In future, if you're going dancing, go with at least one or two friends.

oranje

rb_ie wrote:

I agree, Faith. A bit of common sense goes a long way in these situations.

To be honest, and I'll put it as nicely as I can, it really sounds as though neither were interested in you and/or they wanted you to go away.
Don't try and approach two women at the same time in a club, do you even realise how you come across in their eyes when they see you at that? Seriously, one guy approaching two girls, trying to get both to dance with him and then thinking he can pick whichever he wants...its a tad ridiculous tbh. In future, if you're going dancing, go with at least one or two friends.

I agree, I don't think that you will get too far dancing with two girls at once. If you really like somebody you might be better off picking your opportunity off the dance floor.

NUTLEY BOY

If you are Catholic don't forget to leave room for the Holy Ghost during the slow set.....:D

Cianos

Decide who you want to score, and dance with the other one. Do you see why?