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Should I just leave go and start again?

  • 05-02-2007 9:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Well here it goes,
    Any repsonses are appreciated, especially if you have been in this situation before.

    I met this girl in college and after a few texts each way over the period of a few weeks and a few meet-up's on campus, I asked her to the cinema.
    We seemed to get on really well and I thought that she liked me and I definately liked her.

    We went to the cinema and I made sure to pay for it. She seemed to enjoy it, as did I and we went for a drink afterwards. It all seemed quite rosy. I didnt expect a kiss or anything after and I went home feeling that I was onto something good here.
    I texted her to thank her for coming in and I asked her did she enjoy it. She did...or thats what she said.

    So here I am over a week later and I have not had a text from her since. I was always the first one to text her and the only reason we stopped texting on Saturday night was because she said "goodnight" at the end of a message and said that she'd see me during the week.
    I have heard nothing from her though and I am not sure I want to get back in touch.

    I have been hurt before and chasing isn't a thing I woul like to do in case I trip and fall, like I've done before.

    In the meantime I have become friends with a girl, through another friend of mine. We dont know each other very long but we get on great and are always texting. However she has only recently come out a relationship and depsite me liking her, I am not 100% certain she likes me. I think I should give her time and let things develop to see if things go well....

    Any advice?


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  • #2
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    I think this girl (one you went to cinema) wants a mate and you seem uncertain about it, so I would not persue this for that reason.
    The new girl that came into your life, you will just have to bear (bare?)with her if you reckon there might be something for you both. She will need time and a bit of space from something serious. Good luck.


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