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She's on the pill, had sex for a bit without condom

  • 03-02-2007 02:52AM
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    My girlfriend is just coming off her 'period' on the pill, and tonight things got a little frisky and we ended up having sex for a few minutes without a condom. I stopped after maybe 5 minutes when I realised how stupid we were being, and I checked twice during the sex for precum; the first time there was none but the second time there was.

    Are we being really stupid doing this yeh? I know I won't again, she's only been on the pill for a few weeks and I've stuck my penis in momentarily a few times just to see what it feels like without a condom. Tonight though was more than that, and it hit me like a brick wall how idiotic it was.

    I'm a bit worried now because of the precum thing. She had given me head and stuff before and there was quite a bit of precum then, so maybe I 'used it up' during then or something. Also, I wasn't really close to fully coming when we were having sex.

    What do you think?


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  • #2
    bored and tired
    Closed Accounts Posts: 226 ✭✭bored and tired


    if your gf is on the pill for more than 10 days, and obviously has not missed a pill then you should be safe pregnancy wise.
    However i would be more worried about your sexual histories. The rise in STI's is on the up so i would suggest a sit down to discusss number of partners, if protection was used all the time, and possibly a full sti check up. including swab tests for both of you. they are free and can save both your fertility and your life. being open and honest is important in a relationship, if you cant talk about this subject than is it too early to be risking unprotected sex??


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