Older women?

LegacyUser

Im a 20s lad in Dublin interested in maybe meeting an older woman, do you think its just a bad idea or a typical guys fantasy and I should forget about it? I dont even know where to go to maybe meet some1. its not like I can just go to a club or what ever. Any ideas or comments. thnx.

Dontico

shop around. theres older ladies thinking about thier biological clock, so theres hope.

the thing about older women is that, they dont look for the same things as women our age. i am also a 20's lad. they prefere more intellectual men who they can have a good conversation with. which is why i prefere older women. better talkers than women our age. i think its hard to find a woman our age that doesnt act like a little girl.
no offence girls out there. i generally dont enjoy going into a club just to pull. i'm looking for a woman i can have a good conversation with at breakfast and not a girl i'm just waiting for her to leave.

i was reject by a woman cause i was younger than her youngest son. i do indeed aim high.

Black Swan

Dontico wrote:

i think its hard to find a woman our age that doesnt act like a little girl.

Stereotyping will not help your cause.

Age is not always a factor. People are unique, regardless their gender. You can find mature, young girls/women, as well as immature older onces (the same holds true for boys/men).

LegacyUser

'eh bit of a generalisation or ten there!
i know many many girls same age as i am (25) who can keep a conversation up with the best of them!'

Bottle_of_Smoke

Olders2 wrote:

Im a 20s lad in Dublin interested in maybe meeting an older woman, do you think its just a bad idea or a typical guys fantasy and I should forget about it? I dont even know where to go to maybe meet some1. its not like I can just go to a club or what ever. Any ideas or comments. thnx.

Women are nearly always attracted to men older than them. Kind of hardwired into them. Same way Men are nearly always attracted to younger women.

Comes down to evolution. Women who are attracted to older men are more likely to end up with older men. Older men would have been able to better provide for their offspring - experience hunting/defending them etc. Men are attracted to younger women because they're more likely to be fertile.

So just be wary that this is going against you. Doesn't mean there's no exceptions of course. No idea of where's the best place to find them

Black Swan

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote:

Women are nearly always attracted to men older than them. Kind of hardwired into them. Same way Men are nearly always attracted to younger women.

Comes down to evolution. Women who are attracted to older men are more likely to end up with older men. Older men would have been able to better provide for their offspring - experience hunting/defending them etc. Men are attracted to younger women because they're more likely to be fertile.

So just be wary that this is going against you. Doesn't mean there's no exceptions of course. No idea of where's the best place to find them

Is this reasoning circular?



OP: Not sure why you are attracted to older women? Perhaps you should ask yourself that question? The answer may suggest where to look?

Anti

Olders2 wrote:

Im a 20s lad in Dublin interested in maybe meeting an older woman, do you think its just a bad idea or a typical guys fantasy and I should forget about it? I dont even know where to go to maybe meet some1. its not like I can just go to a club or what ever. Any ideas or comments. thnx.

If you want a quick shag, and a mess around go for it. Just dont get emotionally attached to them.

greenteaicedtea

theres older ladies thinking about thier biological clock, so theres hope.

not many guys in their 20s are on the same page as a woman watching her biological clock. The suggestion of kids will send most of them running.

biko

Internet dating is your friend OP

aidan24326

biko wrote:

Internet dating is your friend OP

Yeah biko has a point OP, internet dating sites might be an option. There are several of them with all kinds of people looking for all kinds of things. You will see from her profile whether a woman is into the idea of a younger man, so it cuts to the chase a bit. If you're just after sex or a casual fling I'd say there's a fair few older women who might be interested, but if it's something more meaningful you're looking for that will be more difficult.