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confused teen

  • 31-01-2007 9:55pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    how do you know if a girl likes you or not? have this friend since august, not long but i reckon we pretty close in that time :) wev'e been out a few times with others, and just each other too - she requested we go to the cinema together and she texts me 90% of the time first is she just really friendly (we get on really well) or is she tryin to decide if she is into me or not by spending a fair bit of time txtin/goin places?

    confusion

    i really like her as a friend, and think i might be falling for her tbh, but i dont think shes all that attractive physically


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    There's only one way to find out.
    Ask her if she interested.


  • #3
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,528 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Unreghowtotell wrote:
    i really like her as a friend, and think i might be falling for her tbh, but i dont think shes all that attractive physically
    Yes, you seem confused in making this statement. You might be falling for her, but you don't find her attractive? Maybe you should consider just keeping the friendship?


  • #4
    grahamb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 17 ✭grahamb


    Just give her a good dart and leave it at that - if shes any use in the scratcher hang on to her for a while. If shes useless sell her to the sex trade....

    Let me know how ye get on.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    grahamb wrote:
    Just give her a good dart and leave it at that - if shes any use in the scratcher hang on to her for a while. If shes useless sell her to the sex trade....

    Let me know how ye get on.

    What kind of advice is that?!?! Christ.

    Anyway, OP, attraction to someone's personality will only get you so far. If you are not attracted to her physically AT ALL, it wuld fizzle out after a while. If you find yourself interested in her, tell her. There really is no other way around this other than to ask her how she feels or tell her how you feel.


  • #6
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    grahamb wrote:
    Just give her a good dart and leave it at that - if shes any use in the scratcher hang on to her for a while. If shes useless sell her to the sex trade....

    Let me know how ye get on.

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  • #7
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    Unreghowtotell wrote:
    but i dont think shes all that attractive physically

    The whats your problem? If you dont find her attractive, then you dont and there is no point in doing anything about it unless she flicks your switch in that department.

    By the way, you do need a very strong prescription love glasses to NOT get the hint that she wants into your y fronts.

    K-


  • #8
    chuci
    Closed Accounts Posts: 938 ✭✭✭chuci


    if your not attracted to her then why go there when there is no need? as was said above it will last only so long if its on personality(what a lovely message to send people) so if love having her as a friend why over complicte matters?


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