Helps to let it out..

LegacyUser

Okay, this is not as serious as some other threads in here but it would help for me to just get it out. My friends are sick to death of this story and I don't blame them. It's very very very long so you don't have to read it and congrats to whoever does!

So here goes...

So, Tom and I have been friends for about 2 years or so. He's my friend's cousin and we have plenty of mutual friends.
We were best friends: spent loadsa time together on our own, talked for hours on the phone. After a couple weeks of unendless time together we both realised we liked each other but neither of us said anything to the other. It was quite obvious though.

In March, it was his birthday and had a gaff party. Long story short he was off his trolley and I was completely sober, and we scored. I was unsure if he'd even remember the night! I sent a text 'thanx for tonight, was just a bitta fun' which confused the hell outta him! He rang me at about 4am and we were talking for hours. (I wasn't sure what I wanted.)We met up on our own a couple days after and we kissed again. The following day, we started going out.

So we're going out and things are grand. He went abroad for 4days during Easter holidays. We'd been going out 2weeks at this stage.. Heard nothing from him and was okay with that until his last night there and got a text to say he'd scored another girl. (supposedly drunken) Now it wasn't a 'I'm sorry, I dont know what happend/I've to tell you something'. It was 'I've just scored this deadly 19yr old bird!'

So he gets home, my friend rings him to confirm it with him. I ring him and ask wtf happened etc. We fight and I say it's finished. He gives me a day or two to 'cool off' and then rings me to see if I'm going into town with our friends. We're all in town and it's kinda awkward. I ended up crying at one point and explained how much he'd hurt me, etc. But we ended up kissing. So we start going out again after the following day. We forget about the drunken score and move on. So my birthday comes and goes and things are dandy.


Right, this is getting far too detailed so I'll make long story short! (shorter)

After this, it's rumoured he's going to break up with me so I confront him. He says no, never crossed his mind. Days later he tells mutual friends that he's breaking up with me. So I get there first and break up with him. (end of May)

We sit the Junior, we're friends, it's grand. He was going away for the summer so that was the reason for the 'break'. He wants to score day before he goes abroad and I say no. He went away on four different trips with only a day between each trip but I saw him each day he was home. 6weeks after the break up we kiss again. Few days later he kisses our friend (who's an ex of another friend) but no-one knows til months later.

So we're just scoring whenever he's home. At one point though, we have a massive fight during the summer. We're both going out one night and he says we shouldn't score so we agree to it. But during the night of course he wants to score! So I said no. Initially. When the last song started playing I went over to kiss him. In the next few weeks, he says he wants me back because he's back for good after all his trips during the summer. I'm quite hesitant because I think he just 'wants his bit'. I make him prove to me that he cares about me which he did so we start going out (again!)

Things are good until I go away for Halloween. I come home and am told he was half-naked giving half-naked girls massages. We had a fight over it and he doesn't realise that it's not right! We forget about that and things are grand again. Middle of November at this stage and get a txt one day 'we need to talk.' hmmmmmm wonder what that means!
So I agreed to meet up and get it over with. Got no reason. Was very unexpected! Everyone was in shock, I think more than I!

Talking 3weeks later and gives the reason that 'I cared about him more than he did me and didn't want to play me along' Can someone explain how that makes sense?!???

Week later and things get flirty. End up kissing yet again. So we're on the scoring buzz again. On a night out together Sat before xmas and I start dancing with him, he just rejects it, says we should stop scoring. (There was a bet involved in this)

At a party on New Years together. He'd been trying to flirt with me all day but I just burned him. At midnight, we kissed. We were together yesterday and enjoyed each others' company a lot. Today he put his arms round me now and again and just kissed me on the lips.

We're in a play together so seeing each other everyday for a while. Once it's over I'm curious to see how often the contact will be then. People just don't understand why we keep scoring. He tries to act all 'hard' infront of everyone else quite a lot by telling me to p*ss off or shut up, just something petty. I asked him today why he was all physical on our own but just verbal abuse infront of everyone else and he just ignored it, didn't know what I was on about.

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K, I wrote this on the 3rd of January at 1am but went against posting it. It's driving me mad so just wanna get it down in words.

To update from past 2weeks..

He said Sat 6th of Jan that he wanted to stop scoring, 2 seconds after he scored me.. So play finished on Monday night. We wern't in contact all week. Get a txt from him, which is quite rare, asking how I am the following Tues. We end up on the phone for about 6hrs til all hrs! He says he misses our phone calls and wants to see me tomorrow. So we meet up the following day. Tries to kiss me all day and I try to resist to prove to myself that I can. Ends up walking me home and I give in. He rings me when he gets home and again on phone 'til all hrs. Was with a group of friends last night including him and I just wasnt myself at all.


So I know this is EXTREMELY long so congrats if you got to here! Don't exactly have any questions.. Just wanna get it off my chest.. Comments are welcome

Thank you

limklad

heregoes wrote:

Okay, this is not as serious as some other threads in here but it would help for me to just get it out. My friends are sick to death of this story and I don't blame them. It's very very very long so you don't have to read it and congrats to whoever does!

So here goes...

So, Tom and I have been friends for about 2 years or so. He's my friend's cousin and we have plenty of mutual friends.
We were best friends: spent loadsa time together on our own, talked for hours on the phone. After a couple weeks of unendless time together we both realised we liked each other but neither of us said anything to the other. It was quite obvious though.

In March, it was his birthday and had a gaff party. Long story short he was off his trolley and I was completely sober, and we scored. I was unsure if he'd even remember the night! I sent a text 'thanx for tonight, was just a bitta fun' which confused the hell outta him! He rang me at about 4am and we were talking for hours. (I wasn't sure what I wanted.)We met up on our own a couple days after and we kissed again. The following day, we started going out.

So we're going out and things are grand. He went abroad for 4days during Easter holidays. We'd been going out 2weeks at this stage.. Heard nothing from him and was okay with that until his last night there and got a text to say he'd scored another girl. (supposedly drunken) Now it wasn't a 'I'm sorry, I dont know what happend/I've to tell you something'. It was 'I've just scored this deadly 19yr old bird!'

So he gets home, my friend rings him to confirm it with him. I ring him and ask wtf happened etc. We fight and I say it's finished. He gives me a day or two to 'cool off' and then rings me to see if I'm going into town with our friends. We're all in town and it's kinda awkward. I ended up crying at one point and explained how much he'd hurt me, etc. But we ended up kissing. So we start going out again after the following day. We forget about the drunken score and move on. So my birthday comes and goes and things are dandy.


Right, this is getting far too detailed so I'll make long story short! (shorter)

After this, it's rumoured he's going to break up with me so I confront him. He says no, never crossed his mind. Days later he tells mutual friends that he's breaking up with me. So I get there first and break up with him. (end of May)

We sit the Junior, we're friends, it's grand. He was going away for the summer so that was the reason for the 'break'. He wants to score day before he goes abroad and I say no. He went away on four different trips with only a day between each trip but I saw him each day he was home. 6weeks after the break up we kiss again. Few days later he kisses our friend (who's an ex of another friend) but no-one knows til months later.

So we're just scoring whenever he's home. At one point though, we have a massive fight during the summer. We're both going out one night and he says we shouldn't score so we agree to it. But during the night of course he wants to score! So I said no. Initially. When the last song started playing I went over to kiss him. In the next few weeks, he says he wants me back because he's back for good after all his trips during the summer. I'm quite hesitant because I think he just 'wants his bit'. I make him prove to me that he cares about me which he did so we start going out (again!)

Things are good until I go away for Halloween. I come home and am told he was half-naked giving half-naked girls massages. We had a fight over it and he doesn't realise that it's not right! We forget about that and things are grand again. Middle of November at this stage and get a txt one day 'we need to talk.' hmmmmmm wonder what that means!
So I agreed to meet up and get it over with. Got no reason. Was very unexpected! Everyone was in shock, I think more than I!

Talking 3weeks later and gives the reason that 'I cared about him more than he did me and didn't want to play me along' Can someone explain how that makes sense?!???

Week later and things get flirty. End up kissing yet again. So we're on the scoring buzz again. On a night out together Sat before xmas and I start dancing with him, he just rejects it, says we should stop scoring. (There was a bet involved in this)

At a party on New Years together. He'd been trying to flirt with me all day but I just burned him. At midnight, we kissed. We were together yesterday and enjoyed each others' company a lot. Today he put his arms round me now and again and just kissed me on the lips.

We're in a play together so seeing each other everyday for a while. Once it's over I'm curious to see how often the contact will be then. People just don't understand why we keep scoring. He tries to act all 'hard' infront of everyone else quite a lot by telling me to p*ss off or shut up, just something petty. I asked him today why he was all physical on our own but just verbal abuse infront of everyone else and he just ignored it, didn't know what I was on about.

********************************************************

K, I wrote this on the 3rd of January at 1am but went against posting it. It's driving me mad so just wanna get it down in words.

To update from past 2weeks..

He said Sat 6th of Jan that he wanted to stop scoring, 2 seconds after he scored me.. So play finished on Monday night. We wern't in contact all week. Get a txt from him, which is quite rare, asking how I am the following Tues. We end up on the phone for about 6hrs til all hrs! He says he misses our phone calls and wants to see me tomorrow. So we meet up the following day. Tries to kiss me all day and I try to resist to prove to myself that I can. Ends up walking me home and I give in. He rings me when he gets home and again on phone 'til all hrs. Was with a group of friends last night including him and I just wasnt myself at all.


So I know this is EXTREMELY long so congrats if you got to here! Don't exactly have any questions.. Just wanna get it off my chest.. Comments are welcome

Thank you

I have to say loose the guy. Don't keep going back to him. There is more fish in the sea which are more dependable and repect you. If he loves you then he will stop scoring around. Or else you just like the "turns on's" of your bad boy!!

chump

I saw a mention of the 'junior' in there. As in the cert?

The lad's a chancer, wants to have his cake and eat it, can't handle the booze, is a bit of a jurk, but then again you're a bit of a jurk for giving him the time of day.

you can be equal to the task, or you can act accordingly

Faith

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