keeping hard

j0e

Having trouble maintaining an erection while having sex with my gf while I can get it up, id say i get about 2/3 to 3/4 never really get a full erection until 10s before I organism. I've done some research but finding sources are hard althought I did come accross horny goat weed and cock rings, was wondering if any1 had any tips of there own or experiences with the the 2 mentioned items.

lounge_lizard

Cock rings just restrict the blood flow to the head, better to get some professional advise, or try delay cream from ann summers. I also use a jelly ring with a bullet vibe drives the g/f wild!

Victor

I'd have a word with your GP if I were you.

Hows the exercise / booze / dies / recreational drugs / stress levels?

Marksie

Dealing with the OP post as is:

There are many reasons why men fail to get an erection, and it is true that most guys, at some point will suffer this.

The reasons fall into two broad categories Physiological and psychological.

Victor summarises somne of the possible physiological reasons, so if any of these affects you then change the habit that may be causeing it. However, if you dont think that these are a possibel cause, then see your GP.

Psychological reasons can include stress and worry. It may be that you begin to expect it to happen and so it does happen. That you worry about pleasuring your g/friend and that causes it to happen as well.
I assume her that your gfriend is being supportive in this?

Perhaps you should take a step back and not assume that the penis is the b all and end all of lovemaking and concentrate solely on other forms of lovemaking. Step away from the idea that if you dont get an erection, then you have somehow failed.
By going back and sp[ending all the time exploring each other you will find that there are many positive benefits. You will learn more about each other, you will find that pleasure can be extended for hours if not days . You will develop a greater degree of intimacy and closeness.
You will aslo find that an erection and subsequent penetration are insignificant compared to what else canb be achieved. When you realise that, then it is likely that your erection will return. however, by that time you will aslo find that it won't matter as you will both have moved further onwards and upwards.

ferdi

yeah a friend of mine is having the same problem....any advice would be greatly appreciated....by him. he says that erection is not the problem but that its not always 100%...

j0e

Cheers lads, yeah mark the gf is ok with this it just means that when I'm inside her after a period of time I go soft and have to widthdraw to work up the erection again, I've stopped boozing because I though that it was the reason behind it, exercise I surf every other weekend, bought a pull up bar to help improve my stamina for paddling (when surfing ofc), havnt smoked in months, but recently had a few drags of a joint and it actually help the situation a bit helped me be the erection longer, stress levels none. As for Physiological and psychological im unsure me and the gf have taken a step back and im doing intense warmups working all the areas etc and shes loving the sex having about 4 orgasms a night but most of them are fingers and tongue, So it leads me to believe its physical me a downside for a year or 2 of long term canabis use, but then in the morning when I wake ive a full blown erection, but after a while it subsides. I was thinking of trying no stimulation down there for a week see if that help otherwise a visit to the doct

LegacyUser

Maybe U are wankin too much ... U should let de baby gravy build up for
as long as possible.