advice on not being slow

LegacyUser

its nothing life threatening,
but i find myself being a little slow when i comes to picking up come-ons from women. generally im grand and comfortable around women i know(as everyone is), but approaching a woman when im out is so fu.cking hard.

take new years for example, i was in an brog(cork), and this one(rather savage) one pulled me over to her, and did her best to get a few words out of me, trying to start a conversation about a club she was looking for.
however being nicely (but not too) drunk didn't help me and i gladly informed her of some clubs and then became lost for words, it ended at that and my night rolled on, without her company.

any advice for the future.

Kell

another_unreg wrote:

but approaching a woman when im out is so fu.cking hard.

No its not. You are just imagining it to be. What exactly are you afraid of?

K-

tom_ass19

Do you go out for a laugh or do you go out to find a girl....

If you go out to find a girl are you holding something back, have you been hurt in the past?

If you want before you go out to the pub, try and think of a few things to say to a woman who you meet, then you wont be stuck for words.

Obviously you have been upstairs in the brog, its a bit smaller so maybe you might feel more comfortable...im not too sure man.

Also if you have any female friends...bring them along so you can talk to them before you go trying to talk to a woman urself....try that n see how it works out.

LegacyUser

'well problem solved, did what was suggested and am able to keep a captive audience now. thanks for the advice.

i never go out to score, thats just going to end in dissapointment.
i go out for a laugh, and if something sparks up then its all the better.

happy new years.
my resolution?= talk to women.'

tom_ass19

well thats good to hear man

have fun