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Will he ever commit?

  • 02-01-2007 2:24pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Everyone Just want to throw this issue out to ye all.

    I have been working with a guy for the past 5 years. i fancied him from the very moment I clamped eyes on him. Never thought I'd be with him. Then 1st Xmas party and it happened but we both were in relationship with someone else. Nothing happened for 6 months and then it happened again and its been happening ever since. We meet up and its for sex. That was fine for a long time but recently I've fallen for this guy. He's recently started seeing some one and we hadn't been together since that but we've becoming even closer friends and whenever he's drunk he rings me and tells me he's crazy about me - I've told him how I feel and I told him now its time to **** or get off the pot. I know he really likes the girl he's with but why does he keep ringing me.

    I'm askin for your opinion - is there any chance that this guy would commit??


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  • #2
    Sully
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators, Regional South East Moderators Posts: 24,056 Mod ✭✭✭✭Sully


    I dont think so. Why? Cause the eejit has been carying on behind his gfs back with you just for sex. If he cared that much about you, he would have dumped his gf and choosen you. The fact he is still with her shows he is only using you for a bit on the side.

    You deserve better then someone who can cheat on his gf no problems. Would you really feel comfortable knowing this if you were with him in a relationship?


  • #3
    Lust4Life
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,350 ✭✭✭Lust4Life


    How long do you plan to be his available Booty Call?
    Of course he's sweet when he calls you that time of night. Because you put up with it.

    It sounds like you made the right decision in saying what you said. Let him think on it.

    In the mean time, look at building your own self-esteem.


  • #4
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Unreg'd wrote:
    I know he really likes the girl he's with but why does he keep ringing me.

    Because you keep answering and giving him what he needs.
    I'm askin for your opinion - is there any chance that this guy would commit??

    Not while you continue the way you are.
    Just ask him if he's interested enough to go out with you, if he's not, cut him out of your life completely.
    You only live once, make the most of it.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'thanks for that guys - I know you're all right.'


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