rant

LegacyUser

right - i am drunk typimg this so forgive the typing - what do i do wrong....................i have a friend from years ago in belfast i got see her and her fiance a few times (iused to go there alot and we all get on really well). i go to bed one night very drunk and her boyfrriend comes in the room booolox naked with the bigest hard on ever feeling me up saying she wont hear nothing to worry...................................................i tell him where to go and never see them again (even though they are married with kids and i am invited to wedding and christening) ever since then my friends husbands think it is okay to hit on me ......................i hsve had to leave so many party's because of them, i dont want to sound big headed but i would never touch them with a barge pole ....tonight escalated with my cousins husband hitting on me with my mam seeing and blaming it al on me - even though she never seeing me telling him to **** off, jaysis if i was single i would never go never him.....................my mam has disowned me and i dont want to be part of a family that thinks i would do........i could go on many a friends husbandtells me they want to fu*k me ...................i cant get a man for myself what the **** am i doing wrong ...........................whay do m y friends husbands want me andd not single people?

JohnCleary

Uh, are you a guy or a girl?

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE say girl

kryan1

naked wrote:

i go to bed one night very drunk and her boyfrriend comes in the room booolox naked with the bigest hard on ever feeling me up saying she wont hear nothing to worry

tonight escalated with my cousins husband hitting on me with my mam seeing and blaming it al on me - even though she never seeing me telling him to **** off,
whay do m y friends husbands want me andd not single people?

To a married man u prob r seen as a bit on d side. But it looks like that its prob an issue with their own relationships that they need to go elsewhere for some nookie...

Its just life that this is happening 2u. That its typical that these guys r married, and that u r single. If u were going out with someone prob would not happen. not sure if this help but hang in there.

King of Kings

your story jumped from a friend's husband to many friend's husbands to your cousins husband.
without being mean (assuming some but not all men are bastards - i am a man BTW) - you must be doing something wrong or hanging out with oddballs.



maybe you come across flirty when you've been drinking - but I'm not saying that excuses their behavior but I'm at a loss to see when so many men would put their relationships at risky (in public too) are you sure you haven't mis-read niceness or friendliness with drink taken.

Laslo

King of Kings wrote:

your story jumped from a friend's husband to many friend's husbands to your cousins husband.

Yeah. Kind of strange. Hard to know what to believe really.

Carrigart Exile

King of Kings wrote:

your story jumped from a friend's husband to many friend's husbands to your cousins husband.
without being mean (assuming some but not all men are bastards - i am a man BTW) - you must be doing something wrong or hanging out with oddballs.



maybe you come across flirty when you've been drinking - but I'm not saying that excuses their behavior but I'm at a loss to see when so many men would put their relationships at risky (in public too) are you sure you haven't mis-read niceness or friendliness with drink taken.

You think a naked man coming in to your room sporting a h@rd on is him just being nice

Beruthiel

Carrigart Exile wrote:

You think a naked man coming in to your room sporting a h@rd on is him just being nice

Please read this forums charter before you get yourself banned.
Consider this your warning.
B

delly

Funnily enough I first read the post thinking you were a man and you have had the bad luck of coming across straight men who want to experiment, but I'm now presuming you are female.

There can only really be two answers to the problems. The first being that you have something very special that a lot of men see and want a piece of regardless of cost, which isn't your fault and you shouldn't have to pay the price of. The second is that you putting out signals and/or coming on to men without realising it, this however is your problem which you need to acknowledge and sort out.

Kell

naked wrote:

what do i do wrong....................

Nothing at all. Sounds like you socialise with a shower of complete prícks. I flirt like fúck with all of my mates but there are boundaries you dont cross such as arriving in your fiancées room bóllock nekked with a raging hard on. Your social circle doesnt seem to understand these boundaries.

Advice- find a new bunch of people to hang out with who's values reflect your own and who dont compromise you.

Happy 2007.

K-

King of Kings

Carrigart Exile wrote:

You think a naked man coming in to your room sporting a h@rd on is him just being nice

that was one incident out of several she describes. Granted he was a pr*ick but my comment referred to the whole series of incidents rather than an isolated one.

As it happens _ I once walked in naked on my flatmate. I went to bed pissed woke up to use the jacks and walked into the wrong room. She made similar claims about me. But I must say "Not if we were on a desert island".
But that's not the issue and I've gone off topic