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How to know if guy likes you?

  • 01-01-2007 02:04AM
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    LegacyUser
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    Well here's some background info - sorry if it all seems silly. I'm 21 and I'm a student. I've never been very confident with myself which was made even worse by a move to Ireland when I was 13. I never felt like I really fitted in at school, and while I had friends, I never had a proper boyfriend. I went out and kissed guys, but never had a relationship. I also never fancied that many guys - all the other girls would go on about how fit certain guys were and I just didn't really care. Anyway, I studied abroad in France last year and had another short relationship, which wasn't even really a proper relationship. I wanted a boyfriend, but I just didn't click with this guy and I thought we were better off as friends. But I liked the physical closeness, going out for a drink with just him and being all 'couply' - I'd never had that before.

    Anyway since I came back to Ireland, I've been really wanting a boyfriend for the first time ever, but I'm so inexperienced, I can't tell if guys fancy me or are just being friendly! I got talking to someone in a lecture who I thought liked me but it turns out he has a girlfriend. A few weeks ago, I met a guy in one of my societies who was really friendly, and seemed to like me - he kept making eye contact and laughed at my lame jokes! I really liked him as well, he's really nice and goodlooking. I didn't really speak to him that much but then a few days ago I met him in the street and he was really friendly to me. We had a short convo, I found out he also loves French and French culture and suggested meeting up to speak it together over a pint or whatever. I didn't know if he liked me or he just wanted to practice French! We never ended up meeting up, because he said he was busy, which makes me think he isn't interested after all?! But then maybe he was really busy?

    Should I try to pursue him? I don't even know if he has a gf, and I don't want to get my hopes up and be disappointed. I feel like he fancies me, but maybe I'm being arrogant or just reading it wrong. What should I do?


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