Have you ever??

danger mouse

Stumbled across an email or pm containing a complete bitching session about you?
I found one last night and have to say im gob smacked at it, this person I would never have thought would do something like this...The lies and non truths were shocking. I never had a fight with this guy this just came out of the blue like. Has it happened anyone on here...I can tell you it's not nice at all.

Rb

Nope, any abuse I've received has been direct.

Tar.Aldarion

I've known it to happen to people, you were snooping weren't you!
Hehe.

FlutterinBantam

Not surprised

danger mouse

Tar.Aldarion wrote:

I've known it to happen to people, you were snooping weren't you!
Hehe.

More about to pull a prank and this fell into my lap...I dont think I can be friends with this person anymore..

Feral Mutant

Nope, everybody loves me.:D

(500th Post Yay:D, cool I get a star)

Ruu_Old

How did you come across the email? Is it a common thing? It hasn't happened to me. If someone would have to keep something from me, instead of telling me to my face then I wouldn't worry a whole lot about it or the people involved.

daiixi

Umm stumbled across an exchange in email which wasn't bitching but instead showed their complete misinterpretation of things that I had said. I don't really care because I don't really care for the other people involved. It was rather amusing.

danger mouse

Ruu wrote:

How did you come across the email? Is it a common thing?

Not a common thing. lol It was a pm one of my mates showed me during an attemped prank last night.

danger mouse

Ruu wrote:

How did you come across the email? Is it a common thing? It hasn't happened to me. If someone would have to keep something from me, instead of telling me to my face then I wouldn't worry a whole lot about it or the people involved.

The thing is this person is always really nice to my face and I have never ever had a fight with them..**** I never fight with anyone, let the truth be known.

Rb

So, Danger Mouse, now that you have this information and know what kind of people you're dealing with, have you thought of the kind of revenge you want to inflict upon them?

danger mouse

rb_ie wrote:

So, Danger Mouse, now that you have this information and know what kind of people you're dealing with, have you thought of the kind of revenge you want to inflict upon them?

Not gonna inflict anything it's his opinion cant hold that against someone. Just not gonna bother talking to them anymore.

Thrill

danger mouse wrote:

Stumbled across an email or pm containing a complete bitching session about you?
I found one last night and have to say im gob smacked at it, this person I would never have thought would do something like this...The lies and non truths were shocking. I never had a fight with this guy this just came out of the blue like. Has it happened anyone on here...I can tell you it's not nice at all.

I twice came across a computer at work where someone had accessed their mail and forgot to log out. I didn't read any mail though. I just logged out. I suggest you do the same thing in future.

It may even have been a crime if you opened someone else's email.Though im not sure.

danger mouse

thrill wrote:

I twice came across a computer at work where someone had accessed their mail and forgot to log out. I didn't read any mail though. I just logged out. I suggest you do the same thing in future.

It may even have been a crime if you opened someone else's email.Though im not sure.

Fair point, ignorence is bliss they say...lol

0utshined

Yeah I came across an IM conversation someone was having before when I was sharing a flat. They'd left the client open when I went to use the PC. There was nothing real bad in it but I thought less of the person because they hadn't got the balls to say what was bothering them to my face. I was moving out the next week so I wasn't too concerned about it. Haven't talked to that person in 5 years now.

Rb

danger mouse wrote:

Not gonna inflict anything it's his opinion cant hold that against someone. Just not gonna bother talking to them anymore.

Fair enough, you don't need spastics like that as friends.

Aisling(",)

i have once of twice and it cut me to the bone

Patricide

Most of the times this occurs people are jsut having a bitch to let of steam and make it so they dont actually have a fight with you in the first place from my experiance, so are they a good thing....yes. Do they cut you to the bone....yes.

:|

I don't think i have, i reckon i'd be pretty upset if i did though

Heisenberg.

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daiixi

0utshined wrote:

There was nothing real bad in it but I thought less of the person because they hadn't got the balls to say what was bothering them to my face.

I can understand this. The email I found was like that - they had an issue because I actually say when people are bothering me rather than lie about it. If you don't like my honesty then **** off! I much prefer to say that I'm frustrated than keep it inside and then get angry for no reason which is what a lot of people do.

./edit.. I guess this means that I can't leave enough alone when I'm faced with it and will snoop. However I think that I gained an understanding of how I'm percieved by some people by reading what I read and don't hold what they've said against them.. They're entitled to their opinion too.

danger mouse

The Scientist wrote:

Post the email up till we have a gawk... i'll advise you on possible future proceedings then.:)

T.Sc.

Not gonna post it up as it would'nt be right. One of my friends was abit annoyed with me for some reason (we're always fighting it's always been the way...lol) and she was asking this other guy why I was being an arsehole to her and then he just let loose on me for no reason. I was ****ing shocked reading it...Im wondering was there some other reason why he was bad mouthing me to my friend...I dont even know this guy that well let the truth be known, and only know him through her. Hmmmm what to do, what to do..lol

PS
Found out she was drunk the other night and always starts on me when in this state but he was sober and has no excuse.

johnnyrotten

No, never.

Sangre

I'm too popular for this to happen. Even if someone disliked me (which they wouldn't) they never find another to bitch about me to, either because that would be impossible or they'd fear my army of peeps would turn on them.

BlitzKrieg

hmm a thread couple months back had a post from me about my two housemates from last year (2005 if I write this post quickly). Who were (with me) best friends, all in the same course in university etc.

Then a girl became involved, and one of them went really really dark and scary. The result was some of the most evil back stabbing back talking actions I have ever been witnessed to.

The result the friendship is now in tatters, only I came out relatively unscathed. Due to my habit of saying to someones face if I have a problem with them.

anywho the majority of this violent saga took place over IM and emails, I remember just before moving out of the house I couldnt resist and had a look over the history of the IM's to see how much I came up.

Only once...I was so very sad. The only comment made about me was the evil friend thought I was bullying the nice friend. Which is laughable when he was the one who backstabbed him (twice).

I did have records of some these emails etc on my computer, but its been so long.

The_B_Man

is the girl hot? its possible ur man is after her and is tryin to eliminate the competition, if ya know wat i mean!

BlitzKrieg

yes that is pretty much the reason. Excpt the competition, had already won and the dark scary friend struck out to break up his victory.

Baraboo

you were going to prank this guy using his PC. Was there anyone else involved in setting up this prank with you. If so, is it possible that you were being set up...... pranker being pranked so to speak.

Pigman II

Can't say I have.

However, even if someone has been bitching about me I find my life is interesting and consuming enough that I don't have really the time or inclination to 'accidentally' 'come across' all this incriminating material the way some others seem to do.

InFront

Not exactly, the closest I came was sending a text about a friend to himself, instead of the intended recipient (his name was in my head when I was pressing send!). It was a fairly innocent bitching dialogue with his own interests at heart that he intercepted. Needless to say i apologised profusely, and as it happened things worked out quite well for everyone concerned.

Thank goodness it wasn't a girl though:eek: they tend to hold grudges more tenaciously.

Savman

You usually know who your friends are withouth having to scroll thru their personal mail. They don't sound like desirable buddies, but if truth be told neither do you.

"When Pranks Go Wrong!" :D

Irony?

madhitchhiker

danger mouse wrote:

Not gonna inflict anything it's his opinion cant hold that against someone. Just not gonna bother talking to them anymore.

great thinking :cool: let karma find its way.