can you be friends with an ex-That you couldnt stand when you were dating?

LegacyUser

A guy i dated a zillion years ago is back in town-SOMEHOW got my new number and wants to be friends!! I remember dumping this guy cos of a serious B.O problem that I brought to his attention severel times but nothing was ever done about it-I dont even remember what i saw in him-Plus dont pirticularly wanna be friends with him anyway cos he was a bit of a prick too!Though i feel maybe im being to hard on the guy-It was a zillion years ago and I am in no way the person i was back then so maybe he isint either!

*PONDERS*

Black Swan

bebopbopbop55 wrote:

Plus dont pirticularly wanna be friends with him anyway cos he was a bit of a prick too!

Me thinks you have answered you own question?

letterman

Jesus, I think he's a lucky man if he never sees you again

MonkeyWrench

Jebus, I hope this guy doesn't call you for his sake, stop being so judgemental.

Nalz

keep trollin trollin trollin on.........


waste of time this thread, if you are seriously looking for an answer OP, re-read your own post


Have a nice day, and dont pick your nose

Bill Andrex

Trilla wrote:

keep trollin trollin trollin on.........

I have to agree with your sentiment on that one! Lock the thread down.

Kalina

Why would you want to be friends with someone you despise so much??

biko

bebopbopbop55 wrote:

A guy i dated a zillion years ago is back in town-SOMEHOW got my new number and wants to be friends!! I remember dumping this guy cos of a serious B.O problem that I brought to his attention severel times but nothing was ever done about it-I dont even remember what i saw in him-Plus dont pirticularly wanna be friends with him anyway cos he was a bit of a prick too!Though i feel maybe im being to hard on the guy-It was a zillion years ago and I am in no way the person i was back then so maybe he isint either!

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What is your question, caller? <- noticed how I used a question mark there!

Nevyn

Trilla if you have a problem with a post or poster use the report post function;
wether a post is a troll or not is not your call.

This applies to you too Bill Andrex.

The rest of you if your post is not on topic and is not helpful do not post,
off topic and unhelpful posting will get you banned from this forum.

Thaedydal

Nevyn

First off who gave him your number ?
Are your friends allowed give your number to anyone who asks with out consulting you ?

And yes people do change, it is up to you wether you get in touch with him or not.
You can meet him for coffee and see if he has changed or if he is the same with a better brand of deodrant.

IF you feel that your life is better off with out him in it and don't want him back then just don't get in touch with him.

dvega

How do you know this man is still the same person you knew a 'zillion' years ago...

Kalina

Dvega makes a good point, this guy may have changed. However, if you don't want to go down that road again (even as just friends) then don't. You don't owe him anything.