unnessessary stress?

LegacyUser

Hey all, I'll just get straight to the point. I'm wondering i'm stressing out unnessessarily?

Had sex on friday night twice (with the same girl obviously). I only had one condom so i used that the first time, no problems.
About a half an hour later the urge came back so i wiped myself down well and re-entered. I knew that i'd empty so i went ahead again. I didnt come (2nd time) but i'm just wondering is there a high possibility of sperm still being live/active that was on my shaft from the first time?
Thanks for the feedback.

Patricide

It is possible to get a girl pregnant ANY time you have sex without a condom, regardless if you think your empty or not.

Crucifix

Sperm can live outside the body for the order of days.

Annie Bananie

Even if you didnt come the 2nd time, still drops of fluid that contains sperm can have leaked out.

Only way to not be stressed is to always wear a condom.
Why didnt you just have oral sex insted? Much safer.

Black Swan

Yes, you can repopulate the earth with such practices. And without protection, you can also pass on STD to her, or you can receive them yourself. If you are responsible, you will get yourself checked out before being with another girl. HIV is not your worst concern. Hepetitus C will kill you or her a lot faster. I hope this got your attention, cause it's no laughing matter.

Rb

I'd consider that stress completely necessary and don't be surprised (if she isn't on the pill or still possibly if she is) that she comes back and tells you shes pregnant, or you've an STI etc.

Your complete and utter ignorance may have put you in a situation you don't want to be in, time will certainly tell but you've noone to blame but yourself so yeah, feel free to stress out all you like over it.

CharLit

Dear OP,
Don't EVER take this kind of risk again, and your girlfriend should get an emergency contraception ("morning after") pill NOW, while she is still within the 72 hour window of opportunity you have for that: the sooner she takes it the more effective it is, so she should get one ASAP.

I hope a little stress is all that comes from this!

C

sweet-rasmus

i think everyone else has put the point across. it's quite a risk altogether. hopefully she got the morning after pill, as i know taken sooner its more effective. always use protection, though itself isn't 100% guaranteed.

craichoe

Medical Issue - Shouldn't be in PI imho

Black Swan

craichoe wrote:

Medical Issue - Shouldn't be in PI imho

Disagree. My reasons? Cause people need to be REMINDED of the risks of both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, and they come here to share and discuss personal issues, and all too often this one!

Webmonkey

craichoe wrote:

Medical Issue - Shouldn't be in PI imho

and i have to disagree with you too. I think this is a personal issue and i don't think you have any right to act as mod especially with that post count