Advice

LegacyUser

Girl.

Girl has boyfriend.

Girl has big crush on boyfriend's friend. So much it hurts and takes up 90 per cent of girl's thoughts.

Boyfriend's friend keeps saying how he wished he was with girl even infront of boyfriend.

Girl hinted she liked boyfriends friend.

Boyfriend is completely in love with girl.

Btw he's not a good friend but a friend all the same.

What will girl do???

Black Swan

It goes without saying that if your hook up with your b/f's friend, their friendship is toast.

It's also obvious that you are not in love with your b/f, cause you are thinking all the time about his friend, so there does not appear to be a future in your relationship. It's also dishonest for you to continue with your b/f, so no matter what you decide to do, it would appear time to move on?

None of us can give you absolution in advance, should you decide to go after your b/f's friend. Just realise that you are in a classic love triangle and one or more people are going to get hurt. Your b/f will be doubly hurt, losing you and his friend.

Heisenberg.

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Catari Jaguar

If girl is mad about someone else why is she still leading her boyf on? She's playing games and he's her safety net. If boy wants to be with her, she has to choose. Dump the boyf, wait a while n then get together. No point in staying with boyfriend if your heart isn't in it. Its not really "betrayal"... Not like the two lads are best mates. If girl is then single, ex has no say and it's up to him to get over it n move on.

Just both think hard about what you REALLY want before doing anything. Cos it's a crush and not love.

Edit: Just to add, you can't help who you fall for, and your boyf will just have to forgive you both if you decide to go ahead with it. And decide if you guys happiness is more important than his. Just make sure you don't do anything behind his back.

LegacyUser

'The girl can do many things,

If she really does like the friend, and know something special will happen from it, she should go with friend.

If she dosent like boyfriend anymore, why should she stay?

Boyfriend who knows about her liking friend, should think about it, cause if she is like this now, what could happen in future.

Girl obviously thinks something wrong with realationship if she thinks of friend 90% of time and hints she likes him.

Friend abviously likes girl but shouldnt say that infront of the boyfriend. But if he does really like the girl its hard to keep your emotions secret.

How does boyfriend treat Girl, and how does boyfriend think about situation(friend saying he really likes girl?)'

LegacyUser

simple question, who would the girl prefer to be with. Boyfriend or Friend. Who will treat her nicer, and who does she like more.

MojoMaker

teriblesiuatin1 wrote:

What will girl do???

Finish school before she makes any rash decisions.

spinandscribble

girl not in love with bf.

girl dump bf because girl care more for someone else so the save everyone even more heartbreak.

girl stop worrying about her bfs lousy friendship if you can call it that.

girl seems detached from bfs feeling. girl needs to do whats best for him and set him free from girl

King of Kings

the king has the wisdom of solomen

and he reckons you are too young too make decision on life

I reckon that it's not friend that bother you but problems or issues with your currently relationship ....

Heisenberg.

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