No cure for, no answer, no solution to a wounded heart

eskimo

I see so many threads on this forum made by people who are suffering from a wounded, damaged heart, desperately looking for some consolation, some relief from the pain... but is the truth not that you just have to go through it and deal with it, because there is no cure or answer?

I just see so many of them, and having gone through it myself, and kinda going through it right now, I feel its actually easier to succumb to the pain and acknowledge that there is no easy way out... The person that broke up with you isn't suddenly going to have new feelings for you all over again. They lost the feelings they had, that's why they ended things. Those feelings tend to just not come back.

It's sad and it's harsh and it's horrible and ****ty and sometimes devastating. But is it not true? What advice can you give?

I'm not being definite here. I'm just as clueless and confused as everyone else. Wishing and hoping. But this is my opinion...

Read a book "its called brake up because its broken" cant remember the name of the guy who wrote it....it wont cure you but it will make you laugh

Beruthiel

eskimo wrote:

I see so many threads on this forum made by people who are suffering from a wounded, damaged heart, desperately looking for some consolation, some relief from the pain... but is the truth not that you just have to go through it and deal with it, because there is no cure or answer?

More and more we live in a 'quick fix' society. People seem to think you can go from A to Z and skip everything in the middle. Not possible.

Now this thread is not a PI, so off to Humanities

SmoothyG

If you are looking for a way to ease your heart, try Chi Kung or Tai Chi, it is all about energy flows, i have never been more relaxed, contented and happy as i have been since practicing Chi Kung. Very little bothers me anymore and i am much more able to take pleasure in the little things we forget as we get older.
I wont drivel on about it, if you are interested check out www.smilefromtheheart.ie

aidan24326

OP, simple answer is there just isn't a cure or quick solution. Nothing but time heals that one (in most cases).

Anyone who ever invents a cure for a broken heart will probably become very rich. Though it'll hardly happen.

Da_virulence

I am going through the same phase.
talking to others makes you feel that you are not the only person on the face of the earth who has a wounded and bleeding heart.
but if you are looking for SOLUTION, then now answer!
you have to do it on your own
but before everything do realize the pain...and accept that your emotions are fragile at the moment, deal with yourself accordingly