if you could....

tails2

talking about this with some people earlier and thought id put it up here....



if you could fool around with someone while already in a relationship with someone else, and get away with it..... would you??it would be simply sexual and nothing would stem from it, a one night stand maybe.

like everyone gets tired of sex every now and then with the same person, in terms of a long relationship(ie a few years),and this would be a little break away... by no means would this say you dont love your gf/partner or whatever just that you need to be satisfied sexually in a different way for a change. this is how it was put when we were talking about it.

This then veered off into when and who started the whole marriage thing and why.

Honestly? Yes.

And I have before. Not proud of it. But I don't regret it either.

Rabies

I have never fooled around while in a relationship with a girl. But I have been the "other guy" a few times.

Lately, I had a few days together with an ex and she has a new boyfriend.

While working in America I got hooked up with a Welsh girl a few nights that was working with me. Her b/f of a few years was in Wales, they just bought a house together.

Before that, I was with a girl in college that was a good friend of mine. She was engaged, relationship ended. We started going out. few months later she was back with her b/f.

greenkittie

No. I think, for girls at least, if you are in a properly loving relationship you don't want anyone else.

sonic juice

if you want to be fooling around boy,then maybe you don't want to be in a relationship in the first place.

Ruu_Old

Rabies wrote:

I have never fooled around while in a relationship with a girl. But I have been the "other guy" a few times.

Yep, here and all so I wouldn't want to put anyone through what happened to me and I think one partner is enough for most people, if its the right person then you won't need to change.

Collie D

I'm usually grateful that there's one girl willing to have sex with me anyway so quite content with that.

Gurgle

tails2 wrote:

everyone gets tired of sex every now and then with the same person

You're not doing it right

Rb

No, I wouldn't.

bongo85

Never monkey with another monkeys monkey :cool:

petes

No.

justsomebloke

Rabies wrote:

I have never fooled around while in a relationship with a girl. But I have been the "other guy" a few times.

Lately, I had a few days together with an ex and she has a new boyfriend.

While working in America I got hooked up with a Welsh girl a few nights that was working with me. Her b/f of a few years was in Wales, they just bought a house together. Before that, I was with a girl in college that was a good friend of mine. She was engaged, relationship ended. We started going out. few months later she was back with her b/f.

greenkittie wrote:

No. I think, for girls at least, if you are in a properly loving relationship you don't want anyone else.

hmm, well either Rabies just happens to get with all the girls that cheat or girls actually do this just as much as men do greenkittie

tman

never have and never will.

I've been on the other end of things before though, and she seemed all to eager to do the dirt on her poor boyfriend sitting at home in a different country.
I seem to have a similar situation on the go at the moment as well:p

Goldfinger

Rabies wrote:

I have never fooled around while in a relationship with a girl. But I have been the "other guy" a few times.

One is almost as bad as the other, IMO.
And it's a prevelant attitude nowadays, too, unfortunately...nobody seeming to give two sh*ts about the consequences of their actions.

I actually fell out with a good mate over this kind of rubbish, seeing a girl who had a boyfriend. My "friend"'s response: "Well the guy's not MY mate, why should I care?" Unreal.

Dun laoire

Now and again

Tar.Aldarion

No, you should consider if she is the right girl for you if you could contemplate it.

Ickle Magoo

No. I am proud of the fact I have never been unfaithful to a partner & I certainly won't be doing it in the future...

I don't have a boring sex life because I don't want a boring sex life so we work at keeping things interesting. I would hope that my partner would have the balls to end things with me or request that we work on our relationship rather than going down the route of a temporary solution to relationship blues by cheating on me...

Don1

Don't think I could. Well I might, while blind drunk but the guilt would eventually get the better of me.

Have been the bit on the side before. It was class only because I didn't know the other guy. Well also because she was hot. Anyway........... next caller.

free2fly

I wouldn't if I was in a monogamous relationship.

Femelade

no way..it has been done to me before, and i was "the other girl" on plenty of occasions..not proud of that. i would be riddled with guilt everytime i see my boyfriend if i cheated on him..
i dont want anyone else anyway!

cance

Collie D wrote:

I'm usually grateful that there's one girl willing to have sex with me anyway so quite content with that.

QFT

faceman

Sounds like the OP needs advice!

You're in the wrong relationship if you have to do it or you need to put effort in your existing relationship.

I deffo wouldnt do it on my other half. When i was younger i did it a few times with ex'sbut im all grown up now and know what i need in a relationship for it to work.

It doesnt matter who'd know or not know. you'd know and you cant run away from yourself!

tails2

haha no i dont need advice. see one of my mates has fooled around an abundant amount of times(does that make sense??) basically he has cheated alot but never thought anything of it. recently he did it closer to my home if you know what i mean so the converstation stemed from that. i was just wondering what all of ye thought about it. he cheated on his ex-fiance at least 4 times and had a few girls on the side at the same time while in other relationships

Rabies

jsb wrote:

hmm, well either Rabies just happens to get with all the girls that cheat or girls actually do this just as much as men do greenkittie

Girls do it, but not as much as men. Some of my female friends have admitted doing it within the first few weeks of a relationship, but rarely in along term one.

Out of all the girls I have been with, that is only three I know of that were in relationships. Not sure about the rest. Not some that is every brought up in conversation by me.
Just get down to business

Cormic

I found out my GF did the dirt on when I was going out with her. I as distraught.

fred funk }{

Dun laoire wrote:

Now and again

Know what you mean....lol!

Black Swan

If you truly love someone, you wouldn't cheat.

Pigman II

Nope, wouldn't do it.

Then again nearly everyone would like to *think* that would be their response, but the mind starts to plays tricks on you when you get a whiff of the poontang.

fish-head

No way. Not a chance. It would kill me to think that someone else would do that to me, aswell..