BF is Circumcisied

Pinkgrl

First boy I have met that is Circumcisied and a little weary of what to do in the bedroom. I feel like I will hurt him if I give him a handjob, any techniques I could use? Also I have heard on the grapevine that it take longer to cum when you are Circumcisied, anyone know if this is true? Thanks Guys

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

most porn penii are circumsised, you could find some of that and see how the pro's do it.

Pinkgrl

porn penii?

Beecher

Since he is circumsised the skin will be less sensitive. Since it is less sensitive you will have less chance of hurting him by giving him a handjob than you would with a regular penis, this lack of sensitivity could also help with lasting longer in bed.

Pinkgrl wrote:

porn penii?

Penii is the plural of penis.

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

penii that you see in porn...


penii is the plural for penis, don't listen to anyone who says that it isn't.

Pinkgrl

Great so if he's less sensitive down there I could be there all night trying to make him cum..That's not every girls dream!

Talliesin

If you hurt him he will most likely say something like "Aow!"

If you hurt him and he doesn't like that he will most likely follow that with something along the lines of "stop".

This will tell you more than anything anybody posts in this thread will.

Beyond that though, unless the circumcision is very recent you aren't that much more likely to hurt him than if he had foreskin. If anything there's one less way of hurting him, since the head of his penis won't as react painfully to too much stimulation.

Some circumcised men report it being harder to acceive orgasm, some don't. However long it takes, how they get there is pretty much the same as with uncircumcised men though.

onemanband

Pinkgrl wrote:

First boy I have met that is Circumcisied and a little weary of what to do in the bedroom. I feel like I will hurt him if I give him a handjob, any techniques I could use? Also I have heard on the grapevine that it take longer to cum when you are Circumcisied, anyone know if this is true? Thanks Guys

Given you have some previous experience I would say the chances of hurting him are zero. Pretty much nothing to worry about and since most guys have different preferences for handjobs anyway. You are as well to talk to him to find out which preferences he has.

I don't think there is anything to back up the grapevine on taking longer to cum.

PS remember the golden rule of handjobs, "If in doubt give head instead".

There's not a single guy on board who would disagree with this!!!

Pinkgrl

There's another thing, I really enjoy giving blowjobs but haven't yet for this new BF, thing is I wanted us to get STD tested before we started having unprotected sex or getting into Oral. Anyone know how long it can take for an STD to be detected? For example, lets say i had unprotected sex last week would there be any point in me getting tested this week or would I have to wait a couple of weeks? And is there anywhere that does the tests for free or maybe a little cheap because I know they can be quite expensive. Thanks again. Maybe I should post this on another new thread

Talliesin

Pinkgrl wrote:

Great so if he's less sensitive down there I could be there all night trying to make him cum..That's not every girls dream!

That's quite unlikely.

Some men, circumcised or not, do find it difficult to cum from certain things, e.g. from handjobs. They generally do have ways that they come cum though, so those things can remain part of foreplay.

Those cursed with the difficulty cumming a certain way are often blessed in that if they do acheive orgasm that way it'll be a particularly intense one, so it the effort required can be kept as a special treat

(p.s. there's a running nerd joke where one uses the wrong pluralisation rule, hence "penii" instead of the correct "penises" above, sometimes this gets out of hand - some people actually think "virii" is the correct term for viruses, though given that it's "penis" not "penus", "penii" is just silly).

Brend

Use some kind of lube (saliva is cheapest and most readily available..moisturiser is another) other wise it can hurt...chaffing is never fun.....trust me on this one...i have first hand experience....all puns intended!

quad_red

my own personal experience is that post circumcision I was much more hardy. No more 'delicate' moments (delicate being a substitution for 'OH MY GOD THAT HURT).

Everyone's different but I find it much more comfortable without lube. Lube reduces grip which I think encourages 'throttle' mode.

All in all, relax OP. You're sexually aware, you care how your partner feels and you love giving head.

If I had a medal I'd give it to you

azezil

Pinkgrl wrote:

? Also I have heard on the grapevine that it take longer to cum when you are Circumcisied, anyone know if this is true? Thanks Guys

Nonsense! I've never noticed any difference at all!

For example, lets say i had unprotected sex last week would there be any point in me getting tested this week or would I have to wait a couple of weeks?

Most stuff will be detectable after a week, HIV however won't show up for 3 months!