Obsessed!

Sony

I have started going out with a girl,recently I wont go into too much detail but lets just say that Im absolutely besotted with her now...I know she likes me too but shes totally put hooks in me the past few weeks

everything started out casual and I was fine with it but now I cant get enough of her ,,grand - but the problem is Im starting to show this -the last few days ive forgotten how to play it cool and have began acting jealous towards her which i know has pissed her off-I dont think ive totally messed it up just yet but anyone got any pointers as to how I can win her back properly the way she liked me before?

she doesnt like talking about her feelings etc so I need to do it some other way such as giving her more space I suppose - basically if theres any women reading this please tell me how I can get her chasing after ME again instead of the other way around!:eek:

Ruu_Old

The only thing I can think of is to give her time and space as you mentioned and plenty of it too. Maybe if she sees that then it will change gradually, ease off a little bit.

Marksie

Sony wrote:

the last few days ive forgotten how to play it cool and have began acting jealous towards her which i know has pissed her off-I dont think ive totally messed it up just yet but anyone got any pointers as to how I can win her back properly the way she liked me before?

.... I can get her chasing after ME again instead of the other way around!:eek:

Question is what exactly are you trying to do? She is not a possession to win nor to have chasing you? She is a human being.

You say you "play it cool" then suddenly became jealous..
in all truth it would probably shock and p*ss me off if someone did that....

Perhaps you should give her space and think about acting more naturally towards her?

Sony

Yeah maybe youre right mark but to be fair I know people who have had a lot worse thoughts than this about their relationships - I dont think my thoughts are particularly scary

And I dont think of her as some sort of possesion, far from it - I really care about her as a person.

anyone else got an opinion on this ?

Thnks

Marksie

Possibly sony, but credit where credits due.. you recognise this.

Perhaps analyse why you feel jealous and what caused it. If it doesnt help resolve this particular issue, it will help in future.

But the swinging from one extreme to another is, perhaps, the root.
good luck anyway