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Relationships With Housemates

  • 03-10-2006 12:54am
    #1
    PAINLESS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 39 ✭


    Last friday night me and my 2 housemates (a guy whos lived with me for a year and is one of my best mates and a girl who only moved in a few weeks ago) and her friend were out in a club. we were all having a great night completely drunk and at the end of the night my new housemate kissed me.
    we ended up sleeping together and in the morning everything was ok no weirdness at all in fact shes been texting me being all flirty and stuff since.
    I went back to my hometown on sat and told my mate all about it and he reckons its a really bad situation to be in and suggested i dont take it any further.
    Now im a bit ambivalent about what to do next.. i dont want to make my living atmosphere tense or awkward for us or the rest of the house but at the same time i like the girl and am pretty sure she likes me.

    just wondering has anyone here ever entered into a romantic relationship with someone they lived with? did it f**k itself up and did you have to move out or did it all work out nicely??

    i know going out with someone who lives in the same house as me would be complicated but if i ran away from every complicated thing, life would be pretty boring.

    any advice would be appreciated. cheers!


Comments

  • #2
    BreadBoard
    Closed Accounts Posts: 902 ✭✭✭BreadBoard


    I don't see any problem here, do want you think is right. See how the two of you get on and enjoy it. Take it slow.

    Best of luck :)


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    It can be tricky sometimes. Try not to involve your other housemates in any issues you both are having (disagreements of any sort). They certainly won't like to have to take sides.


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