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i need help :P

  • 18-09-2006 1:04am
    #1
    lepy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1 ✭


    hey, im jay. nice to meet you all :P

    well, first thing first, i think im bi. i've always been attracted to girls, but only recently i started experimenting and thinking about guys. i realised after a while that i liked guys and girls, and its the same with every bi guy i no :P

    but still, this is where i need help. just recently my friend told me he was gay, and it was cool (thats what sparked my curiosity btw :P). anyway, i want to tell someone, but i dont no if i should do it now, because its been only a while since he told me he was gay. i no its stupid and all but, maybe i should wait a while and see what develops, thats all. im just confused :confused: i hope someone can help :D


Comments

  • #2
    BuffyBot
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,924 ✭✭✭✭BuffyBot


    I'm not sure I have this completely accurate, but it sounds like the jist of your post is that his coming out has sparked your curiousity. If that only happened recently, it may be a bit soon to be slapping labels on yourself.

    IF you want to tell someone, why not tell him? Seems like a fair trade off.


  • #3
    lucernarian
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,235 ✭✭✭lucernarian


    I second what BuffyBot is saying. Talk to your friend about it. Whether you are interested or curious in him physically or not, it's good to have someone who has an idea of what you feel and he obviously won't disown you for fancying guys:D

    But that's all I see your feelings as: you're attracted/curious about guys. I suppose the best way to explore the idea is to satisfy your curiousity.

    I'll be nosey now: What age are you?


  • #4
    Zillah
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,371 ✭✭✭✭Zillah


    I think he means that he likes the guy who came out...

    Tell him. Fool around. Life is too short.


  • #5
    Syth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,865 ✭✭✭Syth


    Soon after I came out 2 friends came out to me. You shouldn't feel like your stealing his thunder or anything. Just do it. Most of the time people get used to it quickly. It's not like your in the limelight for 6 months or anything. (Well for some people it can be, they are the unlucky ones)


  • #6
    Stark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,107 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    Now's the best time to do it while it's the topic of conversation. It'll be a lot easier now than down the line when it's old news and you have to come out of the blue with your "news". Far from stealing your friend's thunder, he'll probably be glad to have someone of the same persuasion to talk things out with.


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