Some questions for homosexual men who have str8 acted

LegacyUser

I've been thinking a little about my sexuality recently, and would like the gay guys out there to answer a few questions for me.

I want guys who consider themselves 100% homosexual, but who also have some experience attempting a "str8" relationship with a girl, to reply.

Note: when I say turned on, I generally mean turned on to the extent that you are fully erect

- Do you ever still fantasise about kissing a female
- Did you ever get turned on just by kissing your prev. girlfriend. I mean turned on enough for her to notice you "down there"
- Did you ever get turned on just by looking at a female / your prev. girlfriend when she was dressed up hot, or when going to bed?
- How did it feel to be close to her in bed, hugging, kissing, touching?
- Did you enjoy touching/holding/kissing breasts
- Did you ever get turned on just by talking to her on the phone or txting her? Or thinking about her body?
- Do you feel more physically attracted to a dolled up female or a cute looking male guy
- Do you fantasise about being with females more than males

I'm just curious as to whether theres a possibility I'm gay or not (despite all my experience with girls). Answers to these questions could help me a little.. I will give you my answers later

Stark

Do you feel emotionally and physically attracted to the same sex?

Goodshape

HeteroOrWhat? wrote:

I'm just curious as to whether theres a possibility I'm gay or not (despite all my experience with girls).

I've had experiences with girls in the past, and wouldn't rule out further experiences in the future (just for the sake of not not preemptivly dismissing the possibility tbh). At the same time, I guess I've always known I was gay.

With regards getting 'turned on', I never really had a problem there. Being close and intimate with someone is generally a turn on regardless of sexual attraction -- and there's no strict set of rules which governs what you may or may not find attractive either (male, female, both, neither).

Personally I find the female form to be a beautiful and interesting thing - just not in 'that way'.

- Do you ever still fantasise about kissing a female
You can fantasise about whatever you want to. If you're talking about sitting down the pub and you suddenly get the idea in your head of playing tonsil hockey with the barmaid, then no.

- Did you ever get turned on just by kissing your prev. girlfriend. I mean turned on enough for her to notice you "down there"
Back when I was kissing girls, yea, sometimes. Like I said, being intimate is often enough of a turn on in itself.

- Did you ever get turned on just by looking at a female / your prev. girlfriend when she was dressed up hot, or when going to bed?
Um, no, don't think so.

- How did it feel to be close to her in bed, hugging, kissing, touching?
It felt nice

- Did you enjoy touching/holding/kissing breasts
Never been that overly excited about it.

- Did you ever get turned on just by talking to her on the phone or txting her? Or thinking about her body?
Well, a sexy text message is a sexy text message.

- Do you feel more physically attracted to a dolled up female or a cute looking male guy
The guys.

- Do you fantasise about being with females more than males
No.


I've had plenty of hard on's without being turned on, btw. And the same in reverse too. You'll know yourself what you want and while stuff like this (the questions and all) might help you 'make up your mind', I think you're the only one who [already] knows the answer. Just don't be afraid to try new things.

I had a good time with the girlfriends I've had, and remain good friends with most - in fact probably all (there wasn't really that many, tbh) - of them, but I'm glad I finally had the nerve to try something else

Vinnie69

- Do you ever still fantasise about kissing a female Never

- Did you ever get turned on just by kissing your prev. girlfriend. I mean turned on enough for her to notice you "down there" Nope

- Did you ever get turned on just by looking at a female / your prev. girlfriend when she was dressed up hot, or when going to bed?If I see a female from behind and she is dressed in jeans and looks like a guy, the heart can miss a beat!

- How did it feel to be close to her in bed, hugging, kissing, touching? doesn't happen any more but it was uncomfortable to say the least!

- Did you enjoy touching/holding/kissing breasts guy's breasts only for me !

- Did you ever get turned on just by talking to her on the phone or txting her? Or thinking about her body? now and then, mainly then



- Do you feel more physically attracted to a dolled up female or a cute looking male guy guys, dolled up females always leave me cold even my female friends

- Do you fantasise about being with females more than males Not even a stroke

I'm just curious as to whether theres a possibility I'm gay or not (despite all my experience with girls). Answers to these questions could help me a little.. I will give you my answers later

Have you ever had an experience with a guy or are your feelings based on your experiences with females?

LegacyUser

Thanks for the honest and thoughtful responses guys. Would be nice to have a few more responses

As for myself, well here are my answers:
- Do you ever still fantasise about kissing a female
Yes, all the time
- Did you ever get turned on just by kissing your prev. girlfriend. I mean turned on enough for her to notice you "down there"
Yes, sometimes very quickly, and sometimes more slowly. But pretty much always at some stage because I love kissing her
- Did you ever get turned on just by looking at a female / your prev. girlfriend when she was dressed up hot, or when going to bed?
Yes, instantly. She makes me feel on fire...
- How did it feel to be close to her in bed, hugging, kissing, touching?
It feels magic, and I love to be holding her. I could stay there for ever. It also turnes me on very much to wake up with her in the morning
- Did you enjoy touching/holding/kissing breasts
Yes, quite a lot... especially kissing.
- Did you ever get turned on just by talking to her on the phone or txting her? Or thinking about her body?
Yes, all the time

- Do you feel more physically attracted to a dolled up female or a cute looking male guy
I don't feel at all sexually attracted to males, no matter how much dolled up-. But I feel amazing looking at a girl who is dolled up. Males look a bit boring to my eyes..
- Do you fantasise about being with females more than males
Yes. 100% females tbh...

And now you are wondering why I'm here... that I must be a regular hetero guy. Well the thing is... even though I'm seem hetero there is another side to me..

I sometimes play the feminine role (in dress, mannerisms, etc.) and allow men to kiss and have anal sex with me and playing this role turns me on more than anything else in the world. It's like I'm in some sort of limbo... cos I'm not into men, but I want sex with them being "their girl"...

BUT - when I'm playing the male role, I'm not even remotely bisexual. I'm totally hetero. This is why I'm not sure about the tag "bisexual".

So what am I?

Syth

Course if you're attracted to men and women, then you could be bisexual. Nothing wrong with that.